(Closed) Fiance's comments on MY weight. What is his problem?!

posted 8 years ago in Relationships
Post # 93
1462 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

I dont mean to sound harse but for all the PPs what happened to loving you unconditionally??? I feel so bad for all of you for being made to feel that somehow you are not perfect enough that they have to point out that they arent happy with the way you look regarding your weight.

I think it is very superficial to make these comments because these are the men you chose to marry and they are making you feel that somehow you arent perfect. Do all these men have a six pack? Do they have the body of Matthew McConauhey?

If I offended anyone I am sorry but it upsets me when men talk about the weight of the woman they say they love. Why give you added stress? Why give you issue with self esteem? Why make you feel that you dont look good enough for his standards?

My Fiance loves me no matter what size I am. Dont get me wrong I take care of myself and eat healthy and have maintained my weight for me not because he would be upset. I would probably slap the shit out of him if he did.



Post # 94
4 posts

@blinx:  hey love!!  Listen, I am the same BMI as you.  Girls at my work with our BMI have described themselves as flabby skinny.  Like they are a low weight but not toned.  Okay listen .  Being toned and like skinny as Jennifer Anniston is your choice.  If you want to focus all of your free time on running, yoga, situps, etc that is your choice.  Some poeple love that and it is their hobby, but baby if you’re like me it is not that fun and you can be healthy without being celebrity toned!!!  As long as you are not overweight and unhealthy you are fine.  Also, I dated a dude who called me out for not being toned at 115 lbs and 5’5. He was an ass.  It is your choice tone a workoutaholic or not it may just not be your thing-its not mine either!!  Anyway, dont ever let a man make you feel bad about your physical appearance!!  Also, remember that there are girls twice our size who have loving attentive husbands, size has nothing to do with it, dont get caught up in this stupid culture we live in where anorexic is sexy..please!  stay beautiful and stay true to yourself!:). Pm if you ever need advice 24/7

Post # 95
47 posts
  • Wedding: March 2013

Its only going to get worst especially if u gain a lot after marriage

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