Post # 1
She just can not seem to stop texting my fiance, even if he does not respond to her she continues to every couple of months or so. When he does respond and tell her to leave him alone then she starts trying to have a conversation like that was an invitation. Today her “fiance” friend requested the both of us on Facebook and messaged my Fiance. I don’t know what to do, short of having to change everything in our lives, which doesn’t seem very fair to us.
Due to some issues at the beginning of our relationship involving her, this upsets me very much and brings all that heartbreak up again! It really is driving me nuts!!!
Post # 3
He needs to have a serious talk with her – it’s his problem to deal with, not yours. If she is still not responsive, and he tries to ignore her, then you’ve got a big problem, and could potentially get her on harassment. Good luck! This sucks, and i’m sorry.
Post # 4
I would do as much blocking as possible. Also save all text messages, emails and print them out just in case you need to file some kind of restraining order.
Block them on Facebook and see if your phone carrier can block those numbers from coming in.
Post # 5
Your Fiance can and should block her number on his phone. You can also block her friend on FB. You don’t necessarily have to change your lives. Use the power of the block. 🙂
Post # 6
Lockdown your fb profiles and change his cell number. it’s very easy to send a mass text to the friends you DO want to keep in touch with once he gets the new number.
Post # 7
@OctBride-2012: Good ideas!
Yes, have your fiance give her one final warning to please leave him and you alone. Then block her number and block her on facebook.
Post # 8
I’m so sorry, this is totally inappropriate and it sounds like she needs to learn to let go. Can your Fiance change his telephone number? These days it’s not a big problem to do and it would solve the texting, and you should both be able to block her and her Fiance on FB so they can’t contact you. But the bigger issue seems to be her inability to move on, your Fiance needs to take the hard line with her, send her an email and tell her it’s on file and if she doesn’t cease contacting you both then you will be seeking legal advice.
She sounds like a crazy person and planning a wedding is stressful enough!
Post # 9
I agree with OctBride-2012, just block them. I have had to block several girls numbers from my step sons phone and they can no longer text or call. Blocking on FB is easy. Just easier to avoid them before they start causing more problems.
Post # 10
- Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA
Block her number and deny her requests. Don’t communicate, and eventually she has to get the hint. Getting upset about it will only make it go on longer; just ignore it completely and she’ll eventually move on.
Post # 11
Maybe your Fiance needs to be more direct and say “Please do not contact me anymore. It is not good for either of us to maintain any kind of relationship, even if we are just friends. In return, I promise to also not contact you. Thank You, and we wish you the best.” If being firm and direct doesn’t work, You and your fiance should block her phone number from calling your phone. Cut the strings completely off. And if she continues to find ways to contact you. Ignore her completely. Eventually she’ll give up… unless she’s crazy… then you might have to get a restraining order. 🙂
Post # 12
I say block the number and the FB requests – or have him change his number. Nothing worse than an Ex that can’t move on! sorry you have to deal with this mess!
Post # 13
Block them- she is super weird though~!
Post # 14
- Wedding: November 2013 - St. Augustine Beach, FL
Unless they have kids or mutual property there is no need for them to stay in contact with each other. Block her number and email address. If she persists in contacting him then he needs to change his number and email and then contact their mutual acquantainces and request that they stop giving out his information to her because she is stalking him (get rid of the friends that don’t comply.)
Definitely keep copies of everything just in case she gets really crazy and you need a restraining order.
Post # 15
He needs to change his phone number and block everything.
Post # 16
Block block block!! Have her phone number blocked and block her on facebook so she cannot search for you. What a whacko!