(Closed) Fiance's Family..

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

Why don’t they like you? Is it something you can talk about with FI’s family. There has to be a reason. If Fiance agrees not to have his siblings in the wedding or at least the 13 year old old then he needs to talk to his parents about it. It’s you and your FI’s wedding so you get the say on who is in your wedding.

Post # 5
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7647 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2012

I say have him talk to his parents because it sounds like you guys don’t want to have his parents upset with you guys about the brothers not being in the wedding. If his parents don’t like you it may be easier if he has the discussion with them about the brother not participating in the ceremony. If talking to them is not an option or something you guys don’t care to do then just stick to your guns and do what you guys want to do.

Post # 6
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1720 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: July 2015

I say don’t officially announce the bridal party until like 6 months before the wedding, therefor you can see where the relationship is at and if you would like to have them in it.  You don’t have to have them but I still wouldn’t make any decisions this far out with your relationship being so back and forth.  Good luck 🙂

Post # 9
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979 posts
Busy bee

I’ve had issues with my xDH’s family.  I found out after 15+ years of marriage that his family didn’t like me.  Then it went all down hill from there.  His family contributed to our divorce.  It’s just something I couldn’t handle or feel the need to be fake around them on a constant basis.  It wasn’t me. It wasn’t making me happy.  I refuse to be fake or involved in drama.  Make ammends. If not, be the bigger person. Stay happy, don’t be fake, stay away from them.  

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