(Closed) fiancés weight gain, need a womans opininion

posted 5 years ago in Relationships
Post # 121
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2013 - Tybee Island, GA

I am pretty sure this post was written to stir conflict. OP hasn’t replied at all.

Post # 123
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Helper bee

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Honey2002: 

Im really overweight as well and I like to believe I have a healthy self confidence in myself …but come on people its hard for me to imagine anyone who is ok being 300lbs!! like really? thats not how our bodies are supposed to be! its not healthy! and how can you be ok with not being healthy? Im not saying everyone should be stick thin or even 125lbs? but 300lbs?

I’m wondering how overweight you are. 125 pounds is barely 57kg. 300 pounds is 135kg… That doesn’t seem that alarming. Plenty of healthy muscular people weigh 100kg+..

 

600 pounds however………………

Post # 124
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Worker bee

There is definitely something going on with her, and she definitely needs help and support in some way. Health is very important, and it sounds like she does not value her health for one reason or another. 

That said, someone who loves her would have posted, “I’m worried about my fiance because she has gained a lot of weight. She isn’t eating right or exercising, and she has changed since we first met. I’m not as attracted to her as I used to be now that it seems like she doesn’t care about herself and her health. Even her hygiene has suffered. I have done everything I can think of to help, but it isn’t working. She says she is happy, but I don’t believe her. I love her, but I don’t know what to do anymore. What should I do?”

THAT is a loving and supportive way to word what the OP said. OP’s post is full of nasty, judgmental comments that make it sound like all he cares about is what she looks like and who cares about her mental health. He is being dishonest with her and going behind her back to post rude things about her. Asking for advice is fine, but he does not love her. She DOES need help, but not from him!

Post # 125
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Helper bee

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gigglebox:  If it were me, I wouldn’t reply if I was given replies on how I must not truly love her and that I’m pathetic and should leave her because she deserves better when I am asking for help. (somewhere along those lines)

Also, it’s quite a lot to take in when there’s so many replies. /: 

Post # 126
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

Going to go ahead and close this now.

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