- 3 years ago
Good Afternoon Bee’s
Yesterday the husband and I went to see the movie Fifty Shades Darker. My husband wasn’t sure about the movie, but he actually ended up enjoying the movie himself. The reason for my post is, we decided to watch in lue of Valentines Day as he’s going away for work this week and he won’t be around; so we had a beautiful dinner than went to the movies and of course planned some sexy time at home. After watching the movie, I think I had the best sex of my life. We have been together for 3 years in March and married for 7 months now. I have never had any complaints about our sex life, but last night brought a new insight to me. I don’t know if it was the movie that played us up, but it never happens with porn that we have watched together.
My question is do you think that these movies are detrimental to real life relationships or do they actually help spice things up in the bedroom? I for one when I started reading them thought they were very far fetched and that chemistry like that could only be seen in movies and in the books. But after watching the movie with my husband and coming home to a beautiful night it makes me wonder if the kinky part of the movie actually awakens something inside of our human instincts?
Granted the whole BDSM in the series has been talked about ALOT, because there is a question as to if the movie promotes a bad relationship and if it reflects an actual BDSM relationship. With that being said, this isn’t a post to debate that because if that’s the case it wil get closed down by an ADMIN lol because everyone is very passionate about their opinions.
So my two questions
1. Have you ever been curious to play with those types of bondage & toys (ie, the balls and restraints), or do you just not like that idea?
2. Do you think that the movie could potentionally help couples spice it up in the bedroom/ or do you think it’s an unrealistic approach to sex?