(Closed) Fight a few days before what you think might be THE day?

posted 8 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

Aww.  I’m sorry you went through this.  We had the same situation a day before he asked my father’s permission, so it’s possible he’s getting nervous or antsy.  Just enjoy your love and TRY not to think about it.  πŸ™‚

Post # 4
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Helper bee

Aw I’m sorry! Hope things improve quickly!

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

Aww… I’m sorry hun!  I keep checking the boards to see if you’ve posted an update!! πŸ™‚

My best friend and her Fiance got into a humongous argument the day before they got engaged.  During which he swore up and down they would not be engaged anytime soon.  Oops… haha.  Oh well, it worked out, they got engaged, and now it’s a great part of their story!

I reallyreallyreallyreally hope tomorrow’s the day for you!!  Good luck!!

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Try not to get your hopes set too high that he’ll propose tomorrow. Not to be mean, but it sucks when you’re expecting something great to happen & it doesn’t & it kinda dampers your day. Also, guys like the element of surprise, so don’t let him know that you’re thinking he’s gonna propose tomorrow. Try not to think about it, keep yourself busy, I know its hard. Happy birthday!! & I hope it happens for you tomorrow thou!!

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

Don’t worry…if you two are on the road to engagement, then one fight won’t push you off the path. I understand your stress, though. The week before my Fiance proposed, we had a fight too, and it added to my delight and surprise when he did pop the question. It put everything in perspective, and made me feel even more loved, that even though we had conflict, it didn’t make him waver in the more important thing he wanted.

That said, I also agree that you shouldn’t get your hopes up too much for a specific day. Just rest assured that your relationsihp is much bigger than one fight, even the ones that leave a chill lingering.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

My fiance and I had a HUGEEEEEEEEEEE fight the night before we got engaged.. I wanted to kick him in his head (as I’m sure he did too lol).  But that morning he woke me up at 7am..and proposed to me on a beautiful beach in Costa Rica..and we both couldn’t care less about what happened the night before Sealed

Post # 11
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

good to hear! make sure you tell us right away if anything *special* happens tomorrow! and HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!

Post # 12
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

The night MY Fiance popped the question I he acted very strang wouldn’t talk to me and wouldn’t make eye contact when I asked why he was being such a grump he just walked away.. come to find out he was just all worked up about what was going to happen just 2 hours later πŸ™‚

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 1991

It’s your birthday!!  Happy birthday and I hope you get a big, shiny, picture worthy birthday present!! πŸ™‚

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