(Closed) Fight with a friend

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: Should I invite her to the wedding?


    Don't invite!

  • Post # 3
    21 posts
    • Wedding: June 2012

    A few years ago I received a STD for a wedding of a friend.  We weren’t super close, but close enough.  Anyway, I actually moved across the country and lost touch with this friend and ultimately I never got an invitation to the wedding.   To clarify, she had my new address because I received the STD soon after I had moved. 

    Personally, I wasn’t offended.  We had lost touch so I completely understood.  If your wedding isn’t until Aug 2012 and you don’t planning on continuing to talk with her and try to be her friend, I wouldn’t send an invite.  Who cares if she talks about you on FB….if she’s doing that to all her so-called “friends ” they all know what she is like so they won’t think badly of you.

    Post # 4
    506 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I wouldn’t invite her, you don’t need that drama.  I gave a STD to someone I found out later was cheating with a friend of mine at work (they both were married) and I decided not to invite her.

    Post # 5
    10713 posts
    Sugar Beekeeper
    • Wedding: June 2012

    I would say don’t invite her and block her on facebook that way you can’t see any comments she’s making on any friends pages… (out of sight out of mind, right?)

    Post # 6
    270 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    Wow, I can understand what your saying. I had a HUGE fight with a friend I felt like a sister in oct 09 and haven’t spoken to since. I know you sent the STD, but in honesty I would NOT invite her. If she is as catty and mean spirited as you say, I would not even want to take my chance that she would make a scene at the wedding.

    I have heard of people who hire “security” they give them the name or picture of people they don’t want in the party(if they show up uninvited) and basically kick them out before any scene happens.

    I know that’s not a nice thing to do but, its your big day and I would hate for it to get ruined or for you to get upset, so I would suggest not inviting her.

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