Fighting in front of baby

posted 4 months ago in Relationships
Post # 46
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Buzzing bee

DanaWeddingGuest :  you’ve got some nerve to tell someone not to swear at you when you provided that (horrible ass) advice…

Post # 47
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Helper bee

DanaWeddingGuest :  oh, ok. I honestly expected someone who laughed at a exausted, lonely mother’s cry for help to be thick skinned and not to mind the F-word. My apologies if it bothered you.

 

I’ll rephrase that: Excuse me, what the flip?

Why are you laughing at OP’s post? In the past men considered childcare women’s duty, but hey, it’s not the Stone Ages anymore. What advice should OP get from your post?

Post # 48
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Helper bee

forkintheroad :  Dear Bee, I’m so sorry about this situation and your loss. You say your daughter does not deserve that and you are right, she doesn’t but neither do you. This fight does not alarm me anywhere near enough as he ongoing behavior. My partner has changed more diapers than that in the past couple of hours… I’m not saying that to rub it in etc. but to remind you his behavior is not normal. He is not being a typical man or a bit frustrating, he is being appalling. From what you have said he sounds like an awful father and an awful partner, and I am so sorry this is the situation you are in right now. Have you considered counseling or what you want in the long term? I hope you are okay x

Post # 49
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

happiekrappie :  Good-natured fish? I don’t like being sweared at, and I will tell anyone I please to refrain from doing it. And I don’t feel the need to ask what you think. 

If you or anyone else doesn’t like what I say, too bad.

 

Post # 51
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

DanaWeddingGuest :  Letting small things slide is totally different than telling women the only real reason to give up on marriage is because of abuse.

Back to OP, I hope it makes you feel good inside that you were laughing at this woman’s pain. You literally contributed nothing to this conversation aside from kicking OP when she was already down. Good for you! 

Post # 52
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

llevinso :  Laughing at anyone’s pain isn’t what I meant. That is a gross exaggeration of what I said. 

My point was, new mothers and babies has been going on for eons. It can be frustrating. My niece had her baby last July and her mom told me she was freaking out about not being able to take to breast-feeding. Her mom chuckled too. Maybe she is a monster like me, but she made it through 4 babies.

Post # 53
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

DanaWeddingGuest :  “I am kind of laughing about this thread.”

Your words lady. And this thread wasn’t about complaining or lamenting the random hardships of motherhood, there are other threads for that. This was about OP having a lazy and selfish husband that isn’t being an actual parent to his child. 

Post # 54
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

Everyone is so serious here.

Post # 55
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

pinkglasses :  responses like yours make me happy that the younger generations (the PP mentioned she has been married 26 years) is standing up to this type of behavior from men and deeming it unacceptable instead of laughing it off as “it is what it is”. 

Post # 56
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: NJ

cuppercake :  It’s just that marriage isn’t for the faint of heart. If someone doesn’t want to go through occasional rough patches, or days where you feel like walking away, then they shouldn’t get married.

Not just to get married then walk out the first time you feel unhappy. 

Post # 58
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: April 2016

DanaWeddingGuest :  “Not just to get married then walk out the first time you feel unhappy.”

Literally no one here has said this ever. 

Post # 59
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Busy Beekeeper

DanaWeddingGuest :  wow. not only laughing at OP for struggling with a useless husband, but gossiping with family and laughing at your OWN NIECE because she struggled with breastfeeding? Man with family like that who needs enemies….

Post # 60
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

LilliV :  lmao! She’s struggling to feed her child, and likely exhausted and overwhelmed! Lol for daysssss!

….no?

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