Post # 1
Is there anyone else who is getting married in december that just seems to be constantly fighting with their FI??
Where you that bee that actually was fighting a lot a few months before the wedding??
I am just getting tired of it :(( Its always about random ass shit. Like we can’t help but nick pick at everything!! :((
Post # 3
DH and I were super stress the few months leading up to the wedding and we had a few fights, I guess after each one we were able to sit down and talk about how we were needed to communicate better and really talk about the things that were stressing us. I guess I look back on it now as they were great learning experiences. They say one of the top relationship stressers is planning a wedding, I def think that is true. I can say that DH and I have been through tons of the life stresses and the wedding planning was the most stressful for us.
One thing that did help, when things really irritated me I waited 24 hours to say something. Then if it still bothered me we could talk about it without emotion controlling the conversation. Most of the time, by time that 24 hours came around I had forgotten all about what I was annoyed about which meanth that it really wasn’t really a big deal in the first place.