(Closed) 'Fighting' over his sister

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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371 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

Do you have any other girls to ask to be bridesmaids? Has he asked the guys to be his groomsmen? I understand why he’d want her to be his best woman, but does he even need a best man/woman? If the answer is yes to the last two questions, I think one possible solution could be to switch who stands on what side and maybe have a few groomsmen stand on your side, considering all your bridal party should be standing up there supporting the both of you while you get married. 

Post # 4
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kittylove13:  you should “steal” one of his groomsmen then your all set. Ok seriously, can she stand on your side but do all the other required duties “for him”? Like give the speech? She could still hold the rings on your side. Maybe you could compromise since you had her first…idk thats hard…

Post # 6
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598 posts
Busy bee

Oy…tell him to suck it up and just pick one of his guys to be best man. Which of them is he closest to? There has to be one. Does he necessarily need a best man? It shouldn’t be that big of a deal for him to choose. If it is a big deal and he fights you over it, then I guess his sister should go over to his side, after all it is his sister. I just can’t grasp the fact that he is not able to pick a best man out of 3 of his friends. Maybe they should pick a number out of a hat and whoever has the highest number is the best man lol.

Things like this should be of least concern when planning a wedding. I’d just tell him to suck it up and choose who is the best MAN in his life. There has to be one who he is closest to.

Post # 8
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kittylove13:  Tell him that. I think it is almost better if you feel that way. Then you can keep her standing on your side during the ceremony without feeling guilty because it’s your honest opinion. I’m sure like my Fiance, all he really wants is for you to be happy, especially on your wedding day!

Post # 10
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64 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2014

@kittylove13:  If he’s on your side he’s a bridesman! Seriously though I truly believe you do what you guys WANT, and it WILL be perfect. It is def. tricky but it will fall into place. If I were you I wouldn’t have a male on my side just because.

My Fiance was/is in a fraternity and loves all his “brothers” AND he has siblings he’s really close with AND he has friends from his hometown, ect, ect, I have 3 or 4 close friends and I only want the close ones in my party. Fiance insists everyone of his million+ friends are just as important as the next, so guess what? I’ll have 5 or 6 (including sisters) girls and he will have apx. 10 guys. Do what you both agree on, screw the rest. Oh and btw, FI’s sister will be on my side unless he steals her too! haha!!

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