(Closed) Fighting over wedding party order

posted 12 years ago in Ceremony
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

What about having them walk in independently? I think this can be done if your bridal party isn’t huuuuuge.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

One of my BMs tried to get us paired up right on the exit, and we still screwed it up. I am 5’9″ and got paired up with a guy who was like 5’6″. It wasn’t a huge deal, but it wasn’t what she wanted.

We’re pairing ours up by height and having them enter by height with the exception of the Maid/Matron of Honor who will be solo and the Best Man who will be up at the altar.

I think you should avoid any kind of order that ranks the friendship. That is volitle and dangerous and could end up hurting someone’s feelings.

Post # 7
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: March 2010

When I’m a bridesmaid I usually volunteer to be last just to help the bride not have to pick a last person.  Heights a good way to do it though, and I wouldn’t worry about who they are paired with.  The recessional only lasts a minute.  If they’re a good friend they won’t care.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2009

We’re putting our maid of honor and best man first and then we’re just putting everyone else in a random order and pairing them by height. I made a random list using this criteria and I’ve had so many complaints from my bms and gms it’s so annoying! Seriously, they only have to walk with them for a minute and they will be able to see the friend they’d rather walk with all night long afterwards! Some people are so silly.

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