(Closed) FIL hates me don't know what to do

posted 9 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What should I do?

    Tell Future FIL to shove it.

    Avoid FIL unless I have to spend time around him.

    Just deal with it.

  • Post # 3
    2360 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    Avoid ever being around him without your Fiance. What a psycho!

    Post # 4
    146 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    So sorry that you have to deal with a Father-In-Law like that 🙁

    Good thing that you told your Fiance about his comments. I would avoid him as much as possible.

    Post # 5
    2315 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    Yikes, just avoid being around him as much as possible, but definitely avoid being around him without others. He sounds so deceitful. 

    Post # 7
    66 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: October 2012

    Next time your around him and he starts saying things record it with your phone then when he starts to deny be like BAM GOT PROOF! and then avoid him.

    Post # 8
    962 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2012

    I would sit down and have a serious talk with your fiance. If your Father-In-Law cannot treat you with respect, you should both stop seeing him. He is verbally abusing you and no one should take that. Your fiance should be on the same page as you and want to keep you away from him. Your fiance should be the one to put his foot down with Father-In-Law – it’s his father.

    Post # 10
    10 posts
    • Wedding: June 2014

    I agree with @GreatGatsbyGirl . I know that you’ve tried talking to your fiance and your Father-In-Law already, but I think this time you should really have a talk with your fiance. It is not fair to you how you are being treated. You can avoid your Father-In-Law now, but you can’t do that forever… Especially when you have children and he wants to visit with his Grandchildren… It’s an awful situation now, if you just avoid it, I think it’ll get worse. Talk to your fiance and have him deal with his dad. This must be fixed asap.

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