Post # 1
My soon to be Father-In-Law hates me with a passion because I am “stealing” his son. At first i got along with him but, as soon as my Fiance moved in with me things changed. FIL would try to start fights with me when my Fiance leaves the room, has told me that I don’t deserve to be with his son, and that I am fat and worthless. I have talked to my Fiance about it and he has talked to his dad but, when confronted he denies that he has ever said a mean or negative word to me but, will try to be nicer to me. To top that off when my Fiance and I go over there he has the audacity to tell me that he “loves me like a daughter” and I’ve seen how he treats his daughter and it’s not very well. I could strangle this man for the lies and deceit that he spews forth to me and my Fiance. I just don’t know what to do about it anymore, I avoid going to his house as much as I can so that I don’t have to deal with it because I don’t want to be disrespectful and add more fuel to the fire.
Post # 3
Avoid ever being around him without your Fiance. What a psycho!
Post # 4
So sorry that you have to deal with a Father-In-Law like that 🙁
Good thing that you told your Fiance about his comments. I would avoid him as much as possible.
Post # 5
Yikes, just avoid being around him as much as possible, but definitely avoid being around him without others. He sounds so deceitful.
Post # 6
Deceitful is an understatement.
Post # 7
Next time your around him and he starts saying things record it with your phone then when he starts to deny be like BAM GOT PROOF! and then avoid him.
Post # 8
I would sit down and have a serious talk with your fiance. If your Father-In-Law cannot treat you with respect, you should both stop seeing him. He is verbally abusing you and no one should take that. Your fiance should be on the same page as you and want to keep you away from him. Your fiance should be the one to put his foot down with Father-In-Law – it’s his father.
Post # 9
There have been some recent events that have occured involving the Father-In-Law that has made my Fiance not want to be around him anymore in addition to the way he treats me so thankfully we will not be visiting him as much. On a side note after talking to my SIL she informed me that my Father-In-Law treated her husband the same way up until he passed away about a year ago and now Father-In-Law “sings praise” about her dead husband.
Post # 10
I agree with @GreatGatsbyGirl . I know that you’ve tried talking to your fiance and your Father-In-Law already, but I think this time you should really have a talk with your fiance. It is not fair to you how you are being treated. You can avoid your Father-In-Law now, but you can’t do that forever… Especially when you have children and he wants to visit with his Grandchildren… It’s an awful situation now, if you just avoid it, I think it’ll get worse. Talk to your fiance and have him deal with his dad. This must be fixed asap.