(Closed) FIL woes

posted 7 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2701 posts
Sugar bee

I just wanted to say that your Future In-Laws sounds utterly evil and it is obvious to me that they are trying to sabotage your relationship. He is being a good Fiance and taking care of you, as well as trying his hardest to get a job to support you both. It is also obvious to me that he adores you and is really trying to start a new life with you-by moving away from his smothering parents and closer to yours. This signifies to me that he wants to get away from his parents and branch out towards what is most important- YOU! 🙂 

I am sorry you are dealing with the Future In-Laws from hell, but at least you have a kind, loving man than wants nothing more than to be with you. I would discuss how this whole situation makes you feel with your Fiance (if you haven’t already) and make a decision, united, as a couple. As you said, you are getting married and will become a family, it is time for his parents to cut the apron strings.. it sounds as if your Fiance may have to do the cutting however. I wish you luck and sorry you are ill and under even more stress.

Post # 4
6351 posts
Bee Keeper

I’m sorry that you are sick 🙁 My thoughts and prayers are with you.

My Future In-Laws cut Fiance out of their lives completely last year because he refused to let his brother call me a white trash whore. They took his brother’s side! Things got better then worse and now are I guess tolerable. Sometimes your in-laws just suck.

You sound like you have a good man who really loves you. I’m sorry that his family is putting him through this-especially when they should be proud of him for being a good fiance and a good man.

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