Post # 1
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Bumble bee
I cant handle this anymore. My Fiance ex-employers wife keeps texting me and using fowl language and calling me names and the latest thing
“What goes aroundcomes back around and u both wil get it n the end”
I feel sick to my stomach everytime she even texts me. I’m not fearful for my life, but every time she text shes so mean and foul and I just cant handle it anymore.
my hands are shaking right now and I almost feel like going out to my car and crying. How do I get her to stop???
Can I file for a harassment restraining order? Is this not what its for?? I already blocked her from FI’s phone because he doesnt need this from her. (his ex boss is NOT blocked per her request) I have told her that I don’t want to discuss it further.
They didn’t contact us for like 2 weeks and now out of the blue they are back at it. I dont want to block her completely for fear she will use other methods to start calling Lance. I mean, as much as I dont want her texting me, I really dont want her to contact him from another number or something.
I just dont know what to do. I dont want to deal with this right now.
Post # 3
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Busy bee
Why is she saying these things to you?
Post # 4
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Helper bee
If you dont mind me asking what happened to cause all of this? Also, your best bet is to change your numbers. If she continues then I would file the HRO.
Post # 5
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Bumble bee
she thinks we owe them money! all of this over $300!
Post # 6
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Honey Beekeeper
Change your numbers. You can’t be protecting him so much that you are getting upset and crying. If she finds a way after that, then file a restraining order.
Post # 7
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Helper bee
@misskarianne: Are you kidding me? What a freak! Change your numbers ASAP! This lady is a horrid example of a human being!
Post # 8
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Bumble bee
Fiance worked for her husband. They say that Fiance and her husband had a verbal agreement that if he paid for Fiance CDL & Physical he would work for him for a year after he got it.
Well FI got it back in October, then he fired FI March 2. So now they are saying WE broke the contract, when really if he would have never fired FI he wouldnt be working somewhere else right now.
They broke their own contract by firing him. Then all that weekend they kept calling about him coming back and rehashing and rehashing somemore about what happend.
Fiance told them NO, I am not coming back with you. and that ticked them off because normally he does go right back. (not the first time fire for no reason/rehire thing)
Post # 9
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Buzzing Beekeeper
A short cease and desist letter should clear that right up. Most lawyers will have a paralegal type one up no fuss no muss.
Post # 10
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Bumble bee
she keeps texting saying Im the most ungrateful person she knows, calling me a bitch, saying “f.u” and I dont say anything mean or negative back.
I mean, they keep threatening to sue us, and we told them two weeks ago that if they feel like they need to do that, they can. We didnt want to discuss it further.
If you are going to take us to small claims court then do it already. So I can be done with it.
Fiance has even talked to other drivers to see what their take on the situation is, and they said there is no way this will hold up in court anyway. Its just pointless crap I feel like it is wasting my time and wearing on my nerves.
Post # 11
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Bumble bee
can you block her number?
Post # 12
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Helper bee
oh good lord. So in order for them to make their point they are text each of you saying terrible things and his wife is texting you acting like a crazy child? Save ALL text messages and email them to yourself and put them in a safe place. They might come in handy because these people seem to be off their rocker!
Post # 13
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Bumble bee
@KatyElle: cease and desist? as in, quit contacting my client type of thing? I guess if they are going to sue us insmall claims court we will just get paperwork served or certified mailed to us? so we dont really need to leave any lines of communication open for anything. Because its all done through the courts.
Im not really that good with legal stuff. sorry if I sound completely dense about it
Post # 14
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Bumble bee
Change your number. Laws are different between states, so I couldn’t really give you more specific information. Additionally, the costs of filing a claim in court is easily around $200, which is probably why they haven’t done it yet. It hardly seems worth the drama to sue EVER for anything small, imho. lol. So they’re harassing you instead. Sorry to hear you’re going through this.
Post # 15
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Bumble bee
@Mrs.DsBeeloved: Will it show what number it came fromif I forward them to my email? I have been saving them in their folder on my droid. so I haven’t gotten rid of anything.
Post # 16
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Helper bee
Call the local non-emergency police number and say you need to file a police report, because you’re being harassed. I’m not sure if what they are doing will be enough for a restraining order, but the police will be able to tell you if they can do anything to help you. If you already have a lawyer, you can also ask them to send a letter asking them to leave you alone – sometimes that is enough to get people to back off.
They are probably harassing you because they know they don’t have a good enough case. They need to grow up and stop acting like high schoolers. Their behavior is unacceptable. I’m not a lawyer, but that sounds like harassment to me!
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