(Closed) FILs are going to drive me up the wall

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
901 posts
Busy bee

I suggest refraining from discussing with it with them at all. It’s THREE YEARS away! It seems really eary to be planning anyway.

Just say that. “It’s three years away, that’s a long time, not really thinking about it yet”. Change subject.

Post # 4
2863 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Well first course of action would be to stop talking about your wedding with them. Don’t give them any ammuniton and they will have nothing to shoot at you. Second your wedding is years away, I wouldn’t get bent out of shape over someone not liking an idea because in 3 years you have no idea what you will actually do and not do. Your ideas and thoughts will change so much. Just calm down, stop talking weddings with your ILs and enjoy your engagement. 

Post # 5
119 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

umm, maybe not sharing all your ideas with them. share the ideas that really dont mean as much to you so you can maybe use some of their ideas for these things and just plan or buy what you want for your wedding with your family or fi…if its already purchased or deposit paid then they can keep their opinions to themselves because its already a done deal, as the saying goes. lol, good luck and if that doesnt work, simply say…my wedding, my wedding, my wedding…its not their wedding and you have the last say.

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