(Closed) FILs interfering with setting the date

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
14496 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Doesn’t sound like he has a clue about how much influence she has over him, ouch.  Maybe you can just come to some consensus of inbetween, like May or June.  There is the slight chance that she may want to some of the formalities for you like a shower.  You never know, could happen.


Post # 4
4803 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Have you asked him what is behind his sudden change of thought? Well, it seems obvious what is behind it – his parents, but you two need to have a conversation about that. The whole point of being engaged is to get married, and he was so excited to do it soon, so why is he going back on that now just because his parents think you should wait? I’d also ask him or his parents why they think you should wait. But this is definitely something you two need to discuss, you’re getting married and you need to be a team, a united front, which does not work when he goes against what the two of you want and just agrees with whatever his parents say.

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