(Closed) FILs!!!!!

posted 6 years ago in Family
Post # 3
1542 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2012

I love my inlaws too. Right now there’s tension over the guest list but overall they’re good people and they care about me and well… they raised an amazing son.

Post # 4
314 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

I genuinely love my Future In-Laws. Since, I have known and dated their son since I was 16, they practically helped raise me. From day 1 I was just one of the “kids” who they tirelessly fed, drove around, and loved. Sure, my Future In-Laws annoys me at times, but so do my own family. I couldn’t have asked for any better people. In fact, I recently nominated (she won) her for our local “Marvelous Women” contest!

Post # 6
1576 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

My Future In-Laws are the best!!!  Since my parents died almost 20 years ago, it is super cool to be someone’s kid again. They call me their daughter already and I call them Mama and Papa.They give me birthday and Christmas money too. Sweet!

Post # 7
54 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2012

Everyone but my Future Mother-In-Law is really lovely, and my Future Sister-In-Law is my one and only bridesmaid. It’s not that my Future Mother-In-Law is evil or anything – but she can be difficult, stubborn, sneaky and crazily rude sometimes, and my Future Father-In-Law is a sexist pig. But that’s just his time and I think that’s just a Future Mother-In-Law thing? I’m learning to ignore it, and understand that she is the way she is because she hasn’t worked for over 20 years so must be bored out of her little head. 

After being through what I have, and reading about fellow brides-to-bees (see what I did there?!) experiences, I really really hope I am never that type of Mother-In-Law.

Post # 8
1199 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@goldie.girl:  I do love my Future In-Laws, and I’ve gotten along great with them since day 1.  I am totally comfortable around them.  Unfortunately wedding planning has been our ‘bump in the road’ and Future Mother-In-Law is really driving me crazy.  I wish she would butt out. I’m easily frustrated and upset by her, I’m sure I have posted many times about how annoying she has been.

But when FH isn’t around, I talk to them on the phone, go to their house, eat with them etc.

ETA: I see them with FH too, I was just saying that I’m comfortable with them with or without FH.

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