(Closed) Final decision on my dress! please help me pick

posted 9 years ago in Dress
  • poll: Which alread purchased dress is "the one"?

    oleg cassini - first dress

    Sabelle - second dress

  • Post # 3
    2538 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2009

    I like #1.  #2 looks great on you, it’s just a lot of dress.  It is absolutely not too young though! 30 is young!  Choose the one that YOU feel best in.

    Post # 4
    4012 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    They both look beautiful on you!! Im not a personal fan of pick-ups, so I would choose the beautiful, lacey, Cassini. Though, if you feel like its not the dress for you, then by all means, wear the dress that you LOVE!! I absolutely dont think that it is too “young” of a dress for you!! To be honest, from the pictures, you look WAY happier in the Sabelle which makes you look quite a few years younger!! Beautiful!

    Post # 5
    5992 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    i  voted for the second dress (and you look super young in it btw) but without the tulle sleeves – the first dress is beautiful but im not loving the halter neckline in comparison (oh and i love the back of your #1 dress, that bow is dreamy)

    Post # 6
    410 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    The first thing I noticed is your SMILING in the second dress but not in the first! You look great in the first one, love tha material however not a halter fan. You also look great in the second and that’s more my style dress and I love how happy you look in it.

    I never realized there were dresses that reflected a certain age range. Hell I’m 40 and my dress is more of the poofy style like your second dress and I love it.

    You love it, your fiance loves it…sounds like it’s all figured out 🙂

    Post # 7
    1701 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    You love the second dress, so that’s it. You are not “too old” for it–that is ridiculous. They wore what they wanted at their weddings. If you don’t wear what YOU want, you will always regret it. Go with the Sabelle (although I’m not a fan of the sleeves).

    Post # 8
    11 posts
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I personally prefer the first dress but I agree with other posters, you are grinning in the second dress!!! 30 is not old!!! you can wear whatever the heck you want 🙂

    Post # 9
    165 posts
    Blushing bee

    I voted for #2 because you are smiling in that dress! I think it looks grogeous on you. I also love #1! You can’t go wrong with either. Choose what makes you feel happiest in.

    Post # 10
    4766 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    2 w/ out the sleeves it is too cinderalla with them.  And you do look happier in it.  Plus your Fiance already saw #1 so surpirze for him 🙂

    Post # 11
    1351 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: March 2012

    Second one is YOUR dress. You look beautiful, and i love it without the sleeves. 30 is the new 25! Go with your heart or you will regret it!

    Post # 12
    2492 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2012

    #2 for sure.. you’re beaming! Besides, you say you LOVE it.. and, you don’t want to regret not wearing it on your wedding day. You look HOT!

    Post # 13
    5109 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: November 2011

    I personally think the first one 🙂

    Post # 14
    7429 posts
    Busy Beekeeper
    • Wedding: October 2009

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    @Atalanta: Totally agree with this. #2 without the sleeves. And to be honest, if you are still torn, you could always ask your Fiance if you really can’t make a decision.  I know most people don’t want them to see their dress until the day of, but if you really can’t make a decision, just show him a pic of the dresses without you in them, and have him pick.

    I bought a dress with pickups that I didn’t totally love, and ended up getting a lace dress that I did love. I showed my husband the one with the pickups after thew edding, and he was so glad I wore the lace one instead, it was just more me.  Still trying to sell the one with the pick ups…

    Post # 15
    4108 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: December 2011

    The first one by a long shot!

    Post # 16
    1087 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2012

    they are both great. But I personally like #2 (without sleeves) on you. Plus it looks like from the pictures you feel better in #2 as well!

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