- 3 years ago
So I am FINALLY DONE! Just wanna update you bees that you guys were right. (But you knew that already.)
For some of you who may remember that I started this thread: https://boards.weddingbee.com/topic/is-my-so-getting-ready-to-cheat/page/1
S.O. and I were trying the counselling and talking (and lots of it). This morning he dropped me off to school. When he picked me up later, he had a bag of fruits as he had gone shopping in the interim. When I got home and I was putting the fruits away, I came upon the receipt that also included flowers. And, the receipt was from a store close to the area where HIS school is. And guess who else lives in that area? YUP.
I was livid! S.O was not home. He had dropped me home and had to run an errand. I called him immediately and asked, “hey! Where are those flowers?” He states in a happy tone, “ohhh… you were not supposed to see that!” I said there are no flowers here. He goes, “well I must have left them at the shop or something. Send me a pic of the receipt and I will call them.” I hung up on this fool and called them myself instead. They said that they do not have any flowers that were left behind.
S.O. comes home and immediately goes, “oohhhh actually my daughter [he has two adult children from his first marriage], took them. I went to see them earlier today.” I am like, “why did she take your flowers?” He goes, “I don’t know!” I asked him to call her while I am there to reconfirm that she took them. He calls and she didn’t answer. They usually don’t take their parents’ calls so it was not a surprise. Then an hour later daughter calls back and he answers and goes, “yeah, I called. Never mind. It’s okay” and hangs up on her. I asked him, “Why didn’t you ask her?” He’s like, “I already called her while on the way back home. And what’s the point of asking her now since you already made up your mind and don’t believe me?”
I asked him that if he went to the groery store with his daughter then how come he did not buy any groceries for her? He’s like, “she went to the pharmacy next door.”
I told him that his story doesn’t make sense. That why did he go to the grocery store and not get anything for his kids. And, then his kid mysteriously takes off with the bouquet? Like wtf is THAT?
I know wtf is that… it’s bull$hit! So I packed mine and my son’s stuff and walked out. I still have to go back and grab the rest of my things. But you bees were right. He is definitely being shady. Not worth the headache if I have to keep looking over my shoulder.
Well, I feel really alone and scared right now because I don’t have much savings and I am in school full-time and between part-time jobs. The job that was supposed to start in June has now been pushed to the Fall! :'( My parents don’t have enough to give me. So I feel so scared and I could use some bee love. Also, I am now at that point too where I feel that I am just not good enough for a relationship?