FINALLY broke up! Need some bee love. :(

posted 3 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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1168 posts
Bumble bee

Don’t feel that way bee!  You did the right thing.  He’s a fucking jerk and liar and a cheat and just a general douche all around!!!!!!!  You don’t need that in your life.

You’re so worthy of a relationship.  He’s the one who is not.  You’ll find someone who will treat you like a queen.  Monetarily, just keep hope that everything will work out.  Screw him bee.  Live a better life than that.  You deserve it.

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

Awwww, so sorry to hear this bee 🙁 You did the right thing, 100%! His story kept changing and wasn’t making any sense. You were right to doubt him, and right to walk out! 

Do you have a place to stay tonight?

Post # 5
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Buzzing bee

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queenie8119 :  don’t feel alone and scared…you are resilient and will make it through this! leaving this cheating son of a bitch may very well be the best thing you’ll do for your mental health in your entire life. things may be rough now, but you’ve been through worse over the past several months with this ass-wipe. 

 

Im very proud of you for making a (good) decision and taking ACTION, rather than piddling away, driving yourself crazy while your self-esteem is eroded by a lying, cheating, sneaky MF. 

 

Good for you, bee! You’ll get through it!

Post # 6
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Bee Keeper

Sweetie, go to the financial aid office at your school asap. There may be emergency bursaries you could get to help you &/ or there may be grants/ bursaries etc you now qualify for as a single mom now that you’re no longer living with a lying p.o.s. 

I don’t think I read your first thread, but just going by what you’ve written here, for a habitual liar this dirtbag sure ain’t good at it- so add dumb as shit to the list of reasons you kicked him to the curb. 

I started over as a young single mom/ full time student- it’s a financial struggle at first but it gets easier. And LIFE definitely gets better, less stressful, less b.s.. My kids are grown now and looking back, I don’t regret my decision to leave a guy who needed leaving for one millisecond. You got this Bee! 

p.s. and your child seeing you going back to school and studying is a great role model! 

Post # 7
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2017

Sending a hug. You did the right thing. 

Post # 8
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Worker bee

 

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queenie8119 :  sorry your ex wasn’t what he promised he was. My ex told me he cheated on me a month before our wedding. I am happy that you walked away from him, I stayed for a looooong year after I knew. When I finally left, my son was more relived than I; kids pick up on their parents moods.

Talk to your school about pell grants and any scholarships they have. There are so many small scholarships that no one ever applies for, ask about those. You can get subsidized housing and ebt. There is no shame in getting help when you need it. 

You seem like a great, positive role model to your son. He will see a smart, driven, independent woman. 

*Hugs* you are an amazingly strong and beautiful woman. You are definitely worthy of love! Unfortunately, you sometimes have to go through a lot of frogs to find your prince. 

Post # 9
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2006

Coming from someone that absolutely ignored warnings signs early on, you made the best decision by leaving. It takes a strong woman to do that, but I promise your future self and your son will thank you for it one day when you find someone you deserve! It might be difficult now, but it would’ve been WAY more difficult had you been bound by marriage, or another child. Sending hugs your way! 🙂 

Post # 10
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Helper bee

I know it is super hard right now but you did the right thing. I’ve been hoping to see an update from you. I’m so proud that you stood up for yourself! Get the rest of your things and remove him from your life. Block his number and move on. You’re 37, not 97! Plenty of life left to live and enjoy with your son. 

Hugs to you! You will be just fine and so much happier that you don’t have to worry what your shady SO is up to behind your back. 

Post # 12
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2019

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queenie8119 :  How are you doing bee? I hope that you and your son have somewhere safe to stay for a while! Even though he surely doesn’t understand what’s going on right now, he’s going to grow up knowing that he has a strong mama who knows her own worth — he couldn’t ask for a better role model! 

Post # 13
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252 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: February 2020

Well done Bee.   You can pull through this,  you are a strong woman and you have your baby to think of.    

Many single mothers have gone on to do great things.   Thinking of you.

Post # 14
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Newbee

Hey OP I think I read on your last post that you were in the military. If so, check with your unit and see if they offer any aid. I know my branch offers aid to service members, but I’m not sure how much or under what circumstances. Hope this helps!

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