(Closed) Finally decided on a dress for my Bridesmaids! Give me your thoughts!

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Having a DW, do I ask my maids to buy or gift?
    Definitely buy. : (3 votes)
    16 %
    Gift them, they have to pay for enough already... : (16 votes)
    84 %
  • Post # 3
    1975 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    i love the dress!!!

    normally i say its the Bridesmaid or Best Man duty to buy dress and possibly shoes. the bride to pay for hair makeup. but as its a Destination Wedding id maybe offer to pay half

    Post # 4
    9825 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper
    • Wedding: April 2019

    definitely pay for the dresses, but don’t buy the dresses as your gift to them, get them a seperate gift as well

    Post # 5
    165 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Who is the designer and style of this dress? I love it!

    Post # 6
    1408 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I am also having a Destination Wedding wedding. I am asking my girls to pay $150 and I’m covering the rest of it. They’ve all told me it isn’t necessary, that they can pay for their own dresses but I’d like to help them anyways.
    How much is this dress? Maybe you could pay half? I’m sure they’ll appreciate any help.

    Post # 7
    195 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    Love it!! What is the destination??

    Post # 8
    67 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2012

    That is a beautiful dress! I would say buy the dresses for them, that is actually what i did for my maids! LOL



    Post # 9
    68 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: June 2013

    What a gorgeous look you have going!  I know that a lot of my friends who have been BMs previously loved when their gown was purchased as one of/their only gift from the bride.  Most of the gifts that BMs get anyway are not that amazing, and if you’re asking them to spent a large amount on the dress, accessories and the Destination Wedding, then they would likely appreciate this more than anything else.  I know in some cultures the bride is always responsible for the BMs dresses, but in the US it’s not like that. 

    Another thought, if the dress is really pricey and you know they won’t use it after the wedding, you could buy them for the girls to wear that day and resell them later?  Then you could get away budget-wise (maybe you could anyway, I don’t know!) with purchasing the dresses and getting them a personal gift?  

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