(Closed) Finally married?!?! How are your first few months going?

posted 6 years ago in Married Life
Post # 3
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

First of all CONGRATS!!!

We got married in June. We lived together for 4 years and have been together for over 5. I LOVE IT!!! It’s so weird but I feel like we are closer then ever! I am not sure why or what changed but I absolutely LOVE being married!!!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

I got married last spring and it’s still wonderful every day!  Don’t let anyone scare you.  Marriage is what you both make of it.  😉

Post # 8
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

Hi, date twin!

I can’t believe how fast time is going by… I feel like it took forever just to get to our wedding day, and now that it’s come and gone it seems the last three months of newlywed-ness is a blur!

I can’t say much has changed since getting married. Maybe I just feel more secure, in a way? Not sure. I feel like we’ve already been married for years, since we’ve been living together almost as long as we’ve been a couple. We’ve been building our relationship upon the same values and establishing a home for our life together practically since we met. We’re as happy as we ever were. We argue and have some intense disagreements every once awhile, but we’re incredibly open about communication and expressing any frustrations in a healthy way. We are very much on the same page about our expectations of each other and what we want out of our marriage.

EVERYONE asks us if I’m pregnant yet/when we’re going to have kids. Starting our family is definitely the next chapter of our married life, but not until we’re darn good and ready, lol.

Post # 10
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Hell yeah, being married is the tits! Love it! We already lived together so nothing really changed, but even small things like our shiny new joint credit card just make us feel so very married Smile

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Well we lived together before marriage, which is where the transition came in that most people experience if they hold off on moving in until after the big day. It was pretty seamless for us, but we had been together 6 years by that point, no big issues with co-habitating. And then after marriage, it feels mostly the same.

Post # 13
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2012

We didn’t live together before getting married but married life has been so great so far! I’m not sure why everyone kept saying it was going to be hard cuz for us, it has been awesome! 😀

Post # 15
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: May 2012

let’s just say I’m glad we lived together before we married because if we had fought the way we did when we first moved in together after we married I would have had serious second thoughts. that being said, the past two months have had its ups and downs but in general, we are very happy.

Post # 16
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

I’m glad to see this thread, because I have never lived with an SO and won’t be living with my Fiance until we are married. Feel kind of nervous but I can’t wait!

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