(Closed) finally ran into the ex!

posted 6 years ago in Relationships
Post # 4
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

@janie-janie: I ran into my abusive ex fiance about a year after I met my now fiance. He had gained a good 50 pounds, I had lost 50. He looked haggard and unkept, I had my nice work clothes on and looked great. It was the ideal see your ex situation. I thought I would feel happy and validated but really I just felt sad for him. He is such a horrible person and has no clue that he is. I feel bad that he won’t get himself the help he needs to have a happy life. I know it seems weird, but it gave me peace seeing him because I knew I did the right thing and ran far far away ๐Ÿ™‚

Post # 5
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5075 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2012

The person I want to run into is FI’s ex – she treated him so terribly.   I want her to see how happy he is now.

Post # 6
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378 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

@GroovyHippieChick: me too! I’d get quite a bit of satisfaction from seeing my exes but I know they know how well I’m doing. The person that I would LOVE to see is my FH’s ex, because she is such a self-centered jerk. She acted like he could never do as well as her ever again…well he did 200x fold and I’d love for her to know that lol (not being conceited – if you knew her, you’d know what I meant!)

Post # 8
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1426 posts
Bumble bee

My most recent ex before Darling Husband FB msg’d me not long after the wedding congratulating me.  It was the most random thing ever, since he didn’t even tell me he was dumping me 4 years ago – yup, not even a cowardly text or email, I found out from his friend that he was telling everyone we were broken up.  Anyway, I found out his fiance left him, he quit the military to become a rent-a-cop and is living with his parents, again.  I told Darling Husband about this and his response, “Boy, aren’t you glad that didn’t work out!” HAH!

Post # 9
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: February 2011

I’m so surprised i havent ran into an ex yet – i’ve lived in the same city almost all my life so i’ve got a few of them floating around out there and the city isn’t that big! haha probably for the best.

running into an ex and them seeing how well you are doing is the SWEETEST revenge ever. haha

Post # 11
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

I ran into my ex a week after Darling Husband and I got married. We were buying some more household items for our apt. I got so excited, I wanted to casually stroll up and introduce my husband. Then his weird controlling dad saw me, literally grabbed him by the elbow, and turned him around and told him to walk the other way. Pfft…whatever. I was ticked at first, but after that display I really don’t feel the need to prove that I’m better off without him. His dad just took care of that for me. 

Congrats on being able to do a silent “neener neener neener” Petty or not, it feels damn good. 

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Right on.I only ran into one of me ex’s once. And it was bad, for me. I was about 7 months pregnant at work, at the coffee shop, in my terrible maternity uniform, that actually just made me look like I gained 50lbs ( you seriously couldn’t tell I was pregnant), my hair was a mess, and I looked like shit, because I was getting over a cold, but was made to come into work.

I literally hid, and refused to give him service. I know he noticed me. He probably thought he dodged a bullet with this one, haha. ๐Ÿ™

Post # 14
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5668 posts
Bee Keeper

Lucky for me my serious exes are on the opposite coast. The couple of guys I casually dated on this coast before Fiance aren’t even worth glancing at.

Post # 16
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

@janie-janie:

haha maybe. I don’t really care to be honest. I did at the time, but in hindsight it’s actually kind of funny!

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