Post # 91
good looking out. I’m so sick of hearing about these women stuck in a nightmare.
I want to echo @llevinso above, I’m praying for you and really hope you continue with your plan to get out. You can have an amazing life, you just have to love yourself, know your worth and get away from him. You can do it.
Post # 92
His behavior is not normal. It’s horrible. If he was truly sorry and apologizing, I would still say this doesn’t deserve a second chance. But he’s not even sorry. He wants YOU to apologize. For what? For being kind and compassionate towards your mom? Or for getting upset and confused when he turned into a raving lunatic? For trying to protect yourself from his verbal onslaught? I can’t figure out what he thinks you should be sorry for. There is no going “back to normal” from this. If you let him get away with this, you’re telling him it’s ok to do and he will guaranteed do it again. Please respect yourself enough to leave.
Post # 93
Bee, have you read any of worthlessbee’s posts? What you are saying sounds like a watered down, early version of what she has dealt with. Go and read, and see how hard it is for her to pick up the pieces and move on with life now. She has PTSD. You don’t have to get to that point, you are seeing this man for what he is before it is too late. You’ve already said that him calling you stupid gets in your head. It’s time to go, time to look after yourself. Please don’t let this man wear you down to nothing.
Post # 94
I’m really sorry if this hurts your feelings because it’s not my intention, but I 100% believe he was just looking for an out and used the car as an excuse. There is no other explanation for him to blow it this much out of proportion and continue it.
You already said the social media thing was a dealbreaker and he still did it (probably because he’s counting on it being the deal breaker so he can leave).
I feel like we need some backstory. Have things been rocky between you two?