(Closed) Find out your love language

posted 9 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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14183 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

quality time       8

physical touch    8

Words of affirmation  6

acts of service    4

gifts                  3

Sounds about right to me! Although i place more emphasis on acts of service than it looks like I do…

Post # 4
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

quality time       11

physical touch    8

Words of affirmation  4

acts of service    4

gifts                  3

 

Gotta say, I’m not surprised!

Post # 5
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2725 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Physical Touch: 11

Quality Time: 6

Acts of Service: 5

Words of Affirmation: 4

Gifts: 4

I’d say that’s pretty dead on for me.

Post # 6
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363 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2010 - Trinity Presbyterian Church/Harrison Opera House

Mine were very accurate – When I read the book, I knew immediately which languages were my top two.  Of course the Lambster is almost the exact opposite!

<table id=”results” style=”position: relative; top: 30px;” border=”0″>

<tbody>

<tr>

<th colspan=”2″>Your Detailed Results:</th>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Words of Affirmation:</td>

<td>11</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Physical Touch:</td>

<td>10</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Quality Time:</td>

<td>6</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Acts of Service:</td>

<td>3</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Receiving Gifts:</td>

<td>0</td>

</tr>

</tbody>

</table>

Post # 7
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532 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

<table id=”results” style=”position: relative; top: 30px;” border=”0″>

<tbody>

<tr>

<td>Quality Time:</td>

<td>10</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Physical Touch:</td>

<td>8</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Acts of Service:</td>

<td>7</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Words of Affirmation:</td>

<td>4</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Receiving Gifts:</td>

<td>1</td>

</tr>

</tbody>

</table>

Post # 8
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1084 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Mine was fairly accurate – but it’s based on our relationship and how we’ve learned to express ourselves as a couple, it might have been different before.

<table id=”results” style=”position: relative; top: 30px;” border=”0″>

<tbody>

<tr>

<td>Words of Affirmation:</td>

<td>11</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Physical Touch:</td>

<td>6</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Quality Time:</td>

<td>6</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Acts of Service:</td>

<td>5</td>

</tr>

<tr>

<td>Receiving Gifts:</td>

<td>2</td>

</tr>

</tbody>

</table>

 

Post # 9
Member
2280 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Acts of Service: 9

Quality Time: 8

Words of Affirmation: 7

Physical Touch: 6

Receiving Gifts: 0

Pretty even across the board, except for gifts. Very reflective of what I actually do and love in real life.

Post # 10
Member
4123 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I LOVE that book!  I read it in spring 2006… Back then I was tied for Physical Touch and Quality Time.  I think the change is that now my Fiance is so NOT physical touch that it’s more evident in my life how much it’s important to me.

 

Now… 

 

 

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<tbody>

<tr>

<th colspan=”2″>My Detailed Results:</th>

</tr>

<tr bgcolor=”#FBFCFF”>

<td>Physical Touch:</td>

<td>12</td>

</tr>

<tr bgcolor=”#E5EBFF”>

<td>Words of Affirmation:</td>

<td>7</td>

</tr>

<tr bgcolor=”#FBFCFF”>

<td>Quality Time:</td>

<td>6</td>

</tr>

<tr bgcolor=”#E5EBFF”>

<td>Acts of Service:</td>

<td>4</td>

</tr>

<tr bgcolor=”#FBFCFF”>

<td>Receiving Gifts:</td>

<td>1</td>

</tr>

</tbody>

</table>

Post # 11
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6597 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Mine

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Physical Touch 10

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Quality Time 10

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Words of Affirmation 6

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Receiving Gifts 2

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Acts of service 2

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<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica; min-height: 14.0px;”>His

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Acts of Service 8

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Quality Time 8

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Words of Affirmation 7

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Physical Touch 6

<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Receiving Gifts 1

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<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Mine was very reflective of me and I was surprised that acts of service were most important to him. I am glad we did this as it initiated a conversation about it and I really didn’t know that my acts of service were how he felt loved. Other than that we are fairly balanced and he knows my need for physical touch as I am very verbal about it!

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<p style=”margin: 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px 0.0px; font: 12.0px Helvetica;”>Very interesting – thanks for posting

Post # 13
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243 posts
Helper bee

Physical Touch = 11

Quality Time = 8

Words of Affirmation = 6

Acts of Service = 5

Gifts = 0

I think this is quite accurate – My Fiance and I definitely connect most through snuggling and spending time together. 

Post # 14
Member
487 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: March 2009 - Byodo-In Temple, Luau Reception

Hmmm…I’ll have to get the boy to do this later.

My results (which I think is pretty accurate):

Words of Affirmation = 9
Quality Time = 8
Physical Touch = 6
Acts of Service = 5
Gifts = 2

Post # 15
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2007 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

Acts of Service – 10

Physical Touch – 6

Receiving Gifts – 6

Quality Time – 5

Words of Affirmation – 3

I already knew Service was probably my big one but I think the Gifts and Words have shifted.  My husband is very good at Words and so I don’t crave it and we’re on a tight budget so random gifts are few and far between.  I was surprised that Touch ranked higher than Time but maybe I shouldn’t be.

Post # 16
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483 posts
Helper bee

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