- 4 years ago
- Wedding: February 2016
First time poster! Hello ladies! I can’t believe I am posting this but I am struggling on this….
This past weekend was my bachorlette party and one of the bridesmaids drank while on two klonopin plus other pills before going out.
The first stop – dinner. She was MIA for at least 30 minutes outside speaking to a married man and is speculated she took him in the limo, married man gave her money, his wife came over and confronted her, all while she was rude to the staff because they stopped serving her drinks.
Second top – first dance club. She decided to make out with an older woman when I told her not to, she got removed from the club due to tripping over her heels, then later accused the limo driver for assulting her. Uber was called to take her back to the house but was canceled because we decided to go somewhere else so she could join.
Third stop – second dance club. Everything was fine.
On the way back to the house – she apologize to the other bridesmaids & friends
At the house – her & I had a heart to heart conversation and she apologized. An hour later, she became hysterical and wanted to leave and drive an hour and a half away (and still to this day, I don’t know why she was hysterical). I went to her room to calm her down. It wasn’t working – her arms were flailing and she was screaming. So unfortantely, I held her arms down and sat her on the bed to get her to even look at me so I can tell her to stay and calm down.
This did not work and she left.
During this whole time, no one treated her differently because I think everyone was sorta afraid her but I know one bridesmaid told her she needed to calm down in the limo but that was it. She is a loud person and comes off rude because she “barks” demands at people.
Later in the night I texted her to see is she was ok.
She responded the next morning stating that her PTSD was triggered and she left because I choked her. She sent me a picture as well of the marks of the choking.
I know this is totally one sided but I would never try to kill one of my best friends. I have never seen her act the way she did on Saturday night, although a mutual friend says she has seen this side of her more than once. Now, I am scared of her because choking is a serious accusation, in addition, I think I don’t want her at the wedding because I am afraid she will take those meds and drink on them and possibly act the same way.
To add – she deactivated her FB and also stated that she “is done” and “out” in a text when I told her that no one agreed the story about the choking. Then the next day, she tried calling me. I didn’t answer because I am not ready to….
So – knowing all that…is it assumed that she will not come to the wedding or should I tell her?
I have attached the picture she sent me. What do you think????