First Anniversary Gift Dilemma

posted 3 years ago in Gifts and Registries
Post # 2
7109 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2013

In this situation I would let my husband make the decision because it’s his family. 

I don’t think what you’re feeling is wrong, I would also be slightly hurt if my husband turned down a gift that I put a lot of thought into and I certainly wouldn’t want to drive ten hours (on any weekend).

I don’t think there is a ‘right’ or ‘wrong’ in this situation but I personally would let my husband make the final decision as this is his family.

Post # 3
3832 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

ummm no.  I made plans that day. They sent an invitation late. Sorry, not sorry. I’m going to the game. 

Post # 4
11890 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: May 2014

CranberryJuice9:  I”d be bummed if DH made that choice.  Personally, I would decline the wedding invite.  They didn’t give you advance notice of the date, you already have plans, you can’t make the wedding.


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