- 9 years ago
- Wedding: June 2009
a baby in a baby carriage, right?
It’s 16 days to the wedding. We have been waiting for our wedding to indugle in sex together. Which has been very very difficult. However, it’s not like we don’t have our own pasts, but this was part of the decision to wait, oh, and he’d feel incredibly guilty if we didn’t. And I love him and I understand this, so we have. However, the last year has also been about planning for baby to make 3.
I stopped taking birth control, or rather tossed the ring and never looked back. I went off all antidepressants and anti anxiety meds and have been mostly okay. I don’t take pills for anything else. I only drink one cup of coffee a day, in the last three months started taking a prenatal with a DHA supplement, we’ve charted my period and ovulation for the last 8 months and I get enough exercise….you get the picture?
It has actually been over a year of planning the above and this is the way I always knew I would be before it was time to conceive, or at least attempt to conceive.
And here we are, just weeks away from the wedding and it looks like I will ovulate on our wedding day or the day following.
I am really excited about the possibility of conceiving so soon, but I am also nervous about the possibility that it might not be that easy.
Also, we don’t see the point of being married like 3 years or whatever before we even start trying. We are clearly getting married because we want to spend the rest of our lives together, and we’d like to share that, this life, with children, therefore it seems to make sense to us to start making our family as soon as we can.
Anyone else in the baby planning phase?
how are you planning? have been? do you talk about it?