(Closed) First Dance…. Mirrors by JT?

posted 8 years ago in Music
Post # 3
4835 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: April 2013

Seems like a good song, and nice because it’s not so common as a 1st dance song.  Great idea!

Post # 4
682 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: December 2013

This is mine and FI’s “song”. While we’re not using it in our wedding, we listen to it all the time and sing it to each other like we’re crazy. 🙂

Post # 6
10972 posts
Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: September 2011

I like it! 🙂

Post # 7
22 posts
  • Wedding: September 2013

We recently decided to have as this as our first dance song too. Wanted to have something that was released the year we are married so it is the same ‘vintage’ as our wedding and just really love the sentiment behind it. Also didn’t want something too slow to make it easier to avoid the ‘high school sway’ when dancing!

Post # 8
2478 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Manhattan Church Rec Center

We are going to make that the Couple’s dance song with the longest lasting couple finishing the song

So when the couple who has been together for over 50 years (FI’s grandparents) are left dancing it will be at the part
“You are, You are the love of my life. You are, You are the love of my life,” it will be just them on the floor

Post # 11
49 posts
  • Wedding: November 2013

To me that song is about realizing you are with a great person after breaking up with them. 


“I’ll tell you, baby, it was easy
Comin’ back here to you once I figured it out”


It’s not the sentiment I would want as a first dance, but that is just my very humble opinion. 


Also: “‘Cause I don’t wanna lose you now” “So now I say goodbye to the old me, it’s already gone”


Post # 12
51 posts
Worker bee

@zonabee:  If you watch the video, it is actually after he has died. It is a couple in old age and flashes back to when they were younger some during the video. JT said he wrote it for (or about) his grandparents.

Post # 13
2884 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

I am in no way trying to come across as rude here, but if I was at a wedding & that song came on for the first dance, I would probably laugh. It reminds me of having your first dance to a backstreet boys song or something (very boy bandish sounding). And it’s not that I don’t like the song, because I do. I just don’t find it appropriate for that special moment (although, I’m not you, so please take my opinion with a grain of salt).

If it’s any consolation, the song I am walking down the aisle to is about a long lost love & how she would come back to her love if he asked her too. Not necessarily the message you expect out of a wedding march song.  

Post # 14
1344 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

I loooooove that song BUT it’s about a couple who has broken up, JT realized he made a mistake after she was gone, and is desperately trying to get his girl back.. It doesn’t really for a first dance song for a wedding; it’s actually a little sad.

Post # 16
1202 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Annnddd now I’m going to spend all night trying to convince Fiance that it should be our first dance song. I LOVE JT, but have never actually listened to the lyrics of that song.


FWIW, I don’t think there’s anything wrong with having a boyband-esque song as a first dance song. JT’s music/style is a lot more mature now. Plus, he no longer has that ugly brillo hair and denim suit (I hope).


I mean, Colbie Callet’s “Bubbly” was a popular first dance song for a while and that’s about an orgasm, sooo…..


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