- 6 years ago
- Wedding: April 2012
I’ve been trying to find the perfect song for our first dance for a while now, but none of the “main stream” typical songs feel right… And I don’t want to use “our song” from the begining of our relationship, it’s not a love song and it has some funky lyrics (and swears) in it that just don’t feel right for a first dance.
I was listening to the radio and heard a familiar voice singing an amazing song… It is a song that a good friend of ours sings (he’s a well known local artist) and it actually gave me goosebumps and made me tear up a little bit… I really love the song and asked Fiance what he thought (he doesn’t get emotional about music so he’s pretty indifferent to anything I pick). Fiance brought up that since it isn’t a mainstream song that it’s not something we would ever be able to have played while we’re out and dance to it (which our other song isn’t either)… Is that really that big of a deal? We really aren’t the dancing types so I don’t see this as an issue, I think having a song that means something to us is better than having a song that can be played everywhere (which we don’t go out places other than his bar lol)… and I kind of like that not many people will have this be “their song”.
What do you ladies think?