(Closed) first dance song already taken

posted 7 years ago in Music
Post # 3
326 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I think you can dance to whatever you want! It’s not like you went to her wedding, THEN heard her song, and decided to use it – you had planned to all along, I think it’s fine 🙂

Post # 4
610 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I would still use it. It can still be your song too.

Post # 5
576 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I’d talk to her. Lots of people have the same song. it just happens that your weddings are close together so it is noticeable. Talk to your friend to give her a heads up. If she’s a good friend and knows its meaningful, she should be happy to be “song-twins”. 

Post # 6
63 posts
Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2011

I don’t think you should use – she might not like it, unless she is not coming to yours.

Post # 7
939 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I would still use it.  I mean, are you not going to wear a white dress because she is? are you not going to have the bouquet toss because she is? are you not going to have a veil because she is?  I know these are much broader things, but it’s impossible that all weddings are completely 100% different.  there are probably thousands of first dances with the song you want.  It’s just a coincidence that you and your friend picked the same one. 

I would talk to her about it and tell her how that song has meaning for you.  Maybe she doesn’t have her heart set on it and will change it if it bothers her. 

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