(Closed) First fitting and I am elated and dissapointed all at once! (Pics)

posted 8 years ago in Dress
  • poll: What should I do?

    You look fine, just try to tone up!

    You look fine, dont worry about it!

    That looks terrible, wear a bolero!

    Its fine but a bolero will look better!

    Cover that tattoo, you can look classier!

    Rock the tat, its who you are everyday why not your wedding too?

  • Post # 3
    22 posts

    @SweetJester:  First of all, I don’t know what you’re talking about when you say “back fat.” I don’t see any!!! And your butt looks fantastic! I think that the dress fits your perfectly. As far as losing more weight for the wedding, I agree, 7 pounds sounds like a healthy amount to lose. Make sure you drink TONS of water! Especially the week before the wedding. It’ll help you look even slimmer and drop pounds faster. (Although staying hydrated is always healthy, wedding or not.) Finally, it is up to you about the tattoo. I think it looks fine, and if it is a part of your personality, then I say leave it showing. If you don’t like the tattoo (regret having it), then cover it up. But ideally, it’s your choice.  You could also ask your photographer if they would be able to edit out the tattoo in a picture or two if you don’t like the look of it. It looks like a small enough tattoo that they may be able to do that.

    Post # 4
    1851 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I actually see muscle definition in your back.  Secondly, I don’t think your back looks bad at all.  I think you look very womanly.

    Next, I would cover up the tattoo.  Your dress is very beautiful and classic, and your tattoo doesn’t really fit in with that in my opinion.

    Post # 5
    19 posts
    • Wedding: November 2013

    I JUST Posted a blog about this! I just had my first fitting the other day and I feel like I have major back fat and fat arms 🙁 But you look amazing!!! <3 And I see NO back fat on you!

    Post # 6
    1756 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: September 2013

    @SweetJester:  You look amazing!  I don’t see any back fat, and your butt just looks shapely! That is desireable, not a bad thing!

    However, I totally understand what you’re feeling.  I had my first fitting last week and even though I’ve been working really hard to tone up, especially in the chest, arms, and back, I still saw a gross back muffin top!  My mom and Maid/Matron of Honor assured me it wasn’t as bad as I thought it was, but I still saw it.  We’re loweing the back just a little, so hopefully that will help.  That being said, even if we hadn’t lowered the back, I doubt anyone else would notice!  We’re our own worst critics, and we see all of our own flaws highlighted.  Everyone else is just going to see a beautiful bride!  That’s what I see!

    As for the tattoo….well, I am of the mind that you got your tattoo for a reason.  If you regret it now, cover it up.  If you don’t regret it, then rock it!  It’s a part of who you are.  And formal ballroom wedding be damned, you’re still you.  Don’t be afraid to show it off!

    Post # 7
    267 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    It doesn’t matter how much weight you lose, most brides end up with some back fat. It’s just a fact of life with strapless dresses. Don’t let it get to you. You do look great. 

    Post # 8
    1308 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: August 2014

    @SweetJester:  Wait!  Where’s the back fat and bum, because I certainly don’t see them!  It’s looks like you now have a properly fitting dress.  By the way… can I have your waist, it’s awesome!

    Post # 9
    979 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    @SweetJester:  I don’t see any back fat. And a mermaid style gown gives you a butt that you really don’t have.  I have NO butt and my dress gives me some curves and I LOVE that about it!! I think it looks great on you.

    Post # 10
    1790 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I think it looks great! Very flattering and congrats on the weight loss! While I love tattoos, my opinion is that it would be less distracting in ur professional photos if u cover it. I’m covering mine for the wedding day. 

    Post # 12
    8700 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper
    • Wedding: May 2013

    @SweetJester:  First off, you look AMAZING! Like WOW CONGRATS! That is a LOT of weight loss!

    Secondly: I agree with PPs– That’s not back fat, that’s muscle!

    And as for the tattoo: Does is have a special meaning? Did you get it in memory of your BFF who died tragically in college/long lost grandmother/dog that saved you from addiction? Then I would leave it. But if it’s just a “I think it’s pretty/cool/whatever” tattoo, I would cover it!

    Post # 13
    486 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    dress fine continue to work out and you will fine

    tattoo well you did have it placed there for areason why cover it up?

    I think you can look glam with a tat if it bothers you that much take a few photos with covered see if you feel like your self and decide from there

    Post # 15
    26 posts
    • Wedding: September 2013

    Make sure that if you do cover your tattoo, whatever you use doesn’t get end up over your dress, especially if you start to sweat a bit!

    Post # 16
    2597 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: January 2014

    You look amazing.

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