Post # 1
I know I have posted about dress regret before and wondering if my dress looks okay. Everyone has always been so supportive and nice with their opinions. (I appreciate it sooo much!) But ever since I picked up the dress and that lady made that stupid comment I just… I cant get excited about it. Its to the point where I am wondering if I should find a different dress off the rack or something. I’m always in so much pain that working out just never appeals to me, even though I need to get there and just get it done. I wonder what I will actually be able to do in two months or if I should just not bother. I guess there isn’t really a point to this post besides me feeling all blah and wanting to get it off my chest.
Post # 3
You look fantastic in your dress! I just went back and looked at the pics. I actually thought that you looked like you LOST weight in the last picture. Not that you need to, you have the perfect curves. I would just ignore that lady. Some people are just born stupid, that lady was probably one of them LOL
Post # 4
A. you look great in your dress, it suits your hourglass frame perfectly
B. I think seamstresses HAVE to say that–mine said it-and I know I didn’t gain weight
It’s also their way of being defensive if they think think the wrong size may have been ordered. I ordered a dress 1 size larger than the sample I tried and the fit was just about the same so good thing I played it safe–I think maybe the samples get stretched out?
Post # 5
@Lyndzo: I appricaite it. I really do. I always come back to read the old thread and I always search out curvier brides with the same style dress and I do feel better at those times. She just really struck a nerve. I’m afraid when I go back she will be the one to “help” me again, and I just dont want to deal with her at all.
@sylvia.riggle: this lady wasnt even a seamstress. She is just a bridal consultant and “wedding planner” so she said. Im not sure what kind of wedding planner says stuff like that! I agree that samples get stretched out. My modesty panel was just a tiny bit off. I really dont want to have the dress taken OUT. I know I just need to push through any pain I am having and get exercising again. I have one more fitting after this one, so I dont know, hopefully I can talk her into NOT taking it out and giving me just a little more time.