(Closed) first kiss/wedding night

posted 10 years ago in Christian
Post # 61
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Wannabee

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jenntle1:  I think it’s wise to have some quesitons about your wedding night. A good way to get some advice would be to do a Google search for Christian Wedding Night. A bunch of great blogs pop up for you to read. Also, check out this video http://bit.ly/ChristianWeddingNight . Congratulations!

Post # 62
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2014

Zombie thread.  Im sure the woman has handled things four years later lol

Post # 63
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2015 - Red Barn Farm

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jenntle1:  Also just want to let you know you are NOT the only one choosing to wait! Me and my fiance are also waiting! 🙂 We did not wait for the first kiss but I know plenty of couples that have – and it was not weird for them at all! I’m sure they were nervous but that’s when the first on anything plus the typical “wedding jitters”. Me and my fiance are choosing to wait… and I also have the same insecurity. 

But.. I think it’s just my insecurity and does not have anything to do with him accepting my body. Because I’m sure -and he’s made this clear to me – that I’m attractive to him. We’re very open about talking about things like that, as I think it helps to go into that transition. 

 

I’ve heard a couple stories with my friends who also all chose to wait. And they said there was a bit of awkwardness like “we’re married now, I don’t go home at the end of the night because I AM home”. But it all passes. 

Post # 64
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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jenntle1:  I’m christian and we are waiting. I am a virgin and ironically, I am not afraid of the 1st night, but scared that our 1st kiss might come off awkward*. I thought it would be the reverse.

My boyfriend and I talked about if I got “bride shyness”. There is so much pressure on that particular night. The way I see it is, it is the beggining of the marriage and can be taken slowly…not the end of the wedding. I guess I haven’t gone through it yet though 🙂

*My first kiss is my first-ever kiss (and I am proud to say that).

Post # 65
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2016

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gingerlove89:  OH, I just realized how old this post is. Ahh, well. Maybe someone else will have the same question later and this will be helpful. 

Post # 66
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Wannabee
  • Wedding: July 2016

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jenntle1:  thats not true first time sex is a beautiful thing in itsself. you and your husband will be giving yourselves to each other in heart mind spirit and body. im sure that he is a sweet guy because you wouldnt be marring him if he wasnt. im sure he wont mind taking it slow and making you  feel as special as he can!! Good luck love:)

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