(Closed) First night of group counseling=FML

posted 8 years ago in The Lounge
Post # 3
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484 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Ackward… I would just ignore him… no need to discuss the past… just forget about it… is there another group you could join? Good luck

Post # 4
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

oh that sucks – but it was a long time ago – not worth fretting over it unless hes like madly in love with you or something.

just go about your business and focus on your upcoming nuptials!

Post # 5
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7975 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

woah, awkward is right!

I think you handled the situation beautifully though – you were upfront with your Fiance, which is really important.

Also, unless the counseling is sexually related, I would think you don’t need to pretend not to know each other – just be vague about it. Don’t seek him out, and if he seeks you out, immediately introduce your Fiance (so he knows you’ve moved on in your lifestyle), and if anyone asks, just say you two were acquaintances in college.

Post # 6
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

We all have a past and if it really was just a one night thing then try to let it go.  If it really makes you and/or your husband uncomfortable then I would ask to switch groups. 

I’m not sure what kind of counseling this is, but obviously you are there for a reason.  If all you are going to do is sit there and listen (because of this guy) you probably aren’t going to get out of it what you need.  If thats the case then it might just be a waste of your time if you don’t switch to a group that you feel more comfortable sharing with. 

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