(Closed) First post – need some perspective

posted 7 years ago in Waiting
  • poll: What would you do?
    Get married after graduation : (15 votes)
    52 %
    Get married after exams and work experience : (8 votes)
    28 %
    Get married after you're settled with a career in your field : (6 votes)
    21 %
  • Post # 3
    1404 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: February 2013

    @peonyinlove:  I guess you need to direct these questions at your SO. If you both can agree on what’s best for your relationship and whether you’re ready to take the next step, then nothing should stop you getting engaged. Like you said, you could have a longer engagement so that you’re both ready when you want to get married.

    Post # 6
    170 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: July 2012

    @peonyinlove:  we have waited 9 years! We began dating at 17, so whe when to university, graduate school And when we began to Work he proposed. We rent a house And one year later we got married (this july). 

    The wait totally worth!! i love him soo much, but we couldn’t imagine being married without economy independency! 

    Now we have had our dream wedding, a Lovely honeymoon And we come back to our house to start enjoying life as husband&wife without depending of others money. 

    about being enaged now, well i honestly don’t like looong enagments. now you have to finish a your school, And find a good Job And when your economy status became stable, rent or buy a house for your own and start talking about wedding. 

    But it depends in everyone, if you want a big-expensive wedding or not! 

    But don’t be worried for the waiting it toatally worth… You can see if you want the pictures of my wedding ( … It was a dream come true, a fairytale And I have waited for that 10 years (we have been married on our 10 years anniversary) 

    now i know that if i have not wait i couldnn’t have had this special wedding !

     Sorry for my writting mistakes I am writting with iphone! :S

    edit: anyway it is your own decision, And you have to decide wich decision Will make you happier now And in the future! 🙂 

    Post # 7
    3470 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: July 2012 - The Gables Inn, Santa Rosa, CA

    You need to tlak to your parents about the whole engagement issue.  We got engaged during our last semester of college, but nothing changed for us  financially for another 6 months, so our parents continued to help us for those 6 months, then once we graduated and started working the assistance stopped– but this was because it was agreed upon by everyone up front, and they knew we were getting engaged beforehand.  

    As for when to  get married, there’s really no rush on this, I’d wait unitl you’re back in the same country.  Once you know it’s going to happen, it’s worth waiting instead of adding more stress to an already stressful period in your life. 

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