(Closed) first post – should I wait?

posted 6 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
Member
1326 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Have you shared your feelings with him? Does he know how important it is to you? You have to decide if not getting married is a deal breaker or not. If you feel you must be married, you need his final decision and then decide for yourself what you are going to do. Good luck!!! WB is a great support network in whatever you decide!!

Post # 5
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30 posts
Newbee

I am glad that you came to the conclusion that this is a deal breaker for you because only you know what are the most important goals for you and your children. I think that when you were in limbo regarding whether or not you could live with not getting married, you were trying to force yourself (in order to keep this amazing relationship) to see that marriage is not that important. In reality, the things that matter to you shoud matter to your partner. No one should have to sacrifice something as important as marriage. Also, think about the example that you want to set for your children. Keep us posted on how your conversations go with your Boyfriend or Best Friend.

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