(Closed) First post…and a little scared

posted 8 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Can I plan a wedding in less than four months
    Yes, with lots of help : (64 votes)
    96 %
    No way, you are crazy : (3 votes)
    4 %
  • Post # 3
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    1897 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: December 2010

    BOO!!!!!  Are we that scary?   

    Just kidding.

    Welcome to the bee, congratulations on your engagement, and Good luck tonight 😉

    Post # 4
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    2397 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    Welcome to the Hive!  Glad to have ya here 🙂

    I don’t think you’re crazy.  You’ll just need to be in mega plan mode for a few months!  Good luck tonight, hope everything works out for you!

    Post # 5
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    42 posts
    Newbee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    Welcome and congrats!! You can certainly plan a wedding in that time, but enlist lots of help. Otherwise, you will go crazy. Good luck 🙂 

    Post # 6
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    645 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    Hi katiebirdbee!

    I am a fellow San Diego bee! Our wedding date is set for October. I have some great vendor recommendations and I also have a wonderful wedding planner! She does over 30 weddings a year. Her name is Kasey Shepard and she is with I Do Weddings. She is super calm, sweet, and I think her prices are very reasonable.

    PM if you need any other recommendations! VG Bakery in Cardiff is a great place for wedding cakes. Also, the Ring Bearer Inn may have some great all-inclusive packages with food, cake, linens, etc.

    Post # 7
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    283 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Congratulations! My whole wedding just got derailed and we’re starting from scratch at 4.5 months out.  You can do it 🙂

    Post # 8
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    1209 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Welcome!! Good luck!!

    Post # 10
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    1585 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2010

    Do I think you are crazy?  A little.  But if you want to pull off a wedding in 4 months I say all the power to you!

    Post # 11
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    2208 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2010

    If you are decisive and not too stuck on one idea, yes, you can do it.

    My wedding date is a week before what you have chosen, and I only secured my vendors in the last few weeks. That will be the hardest part, get on it stat.

    Then move to invites. They take FOREVER. April is the month of invites for me, and I have so much work ahead.

    You should also find a dress this month.

    After that, worry about things like hair, shoes, makeup, etc., MUCH closer to the wedding. I’m always surprised by how early people do this.

    Good luck!

    Post # 12
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    581 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: December 2015

    Of corse you can!!! God created the world in 7 seven days, I say you can pull off a wedding in 4 months!!! 😉

    Post # 13
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    7975 posts
    Bumble Beekeeper

    Warmly welcome!

    I think you can pull of a wedding in 4 months, but you definitely need to be ready to put in the time (and stress) to make it happen – and make sure you’ve got a willing group on hand ready to help, because you’ll need it!

    Post # 14
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    2532 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    Welcome! And i think the bee will help you a lot in the next 4 months!! It will take a lot of hard work and a lot of patience on your part (because Im sure things will get frustrating) but I think you can definitely do it!!

    Post # 15
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    1363 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: June 2009

    You can totally do it!  I think monitajb has some great suggestions about prioritizing the mountain of to-dos!  Good luck and when it starts to get to you, just remember, you’ll be done in four months, and then you’ll be married!  

    Post # 16
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    94 posts
    Worker bee
    • Wedding: May 2010

    You can definitely plan one in 4 months.  I have a 6 month engagement and by 3 months had almost everything done and now I’m bored waiting for The Day. Just get the venues booked and you dress ordered asap and you’re off to a good start!

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