(Closed) First Wedding Planning Break-down

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 2
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Buzzing Beekeeper

This is one of countless compromises you will have to make in a marriage. It is his day too. You can have summer colors and dark tuxes. It might be beneficial for you both to make a list of non negotiables, then talk it out to find compromise 

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

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gbee:  Perhaps you and your Fiance need to each make a list of the things that are most important to you. Neither one of you is going to get everything you want, but if you both priorize your choices, you will each get some of what you want.

In the grand scheme of things, some of these items just don’t really matter.

I wouldn’t want black tuxes for a summer wedding either, but not the hill to die on.

Post # 4
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: May 2017

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gbee:  I agree with the previous words of wisdom. A wedding involves 2 people- 2 people who may not share the same taste in all things. The wedding planning process is really the perfect time to practice letting things go and making compromises. 

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Buzzing Beekeeper

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gbee:  A stratigy that workd for us and might help you, do the research. Give him three options to chose from. Most of the time he picked what I wante most. When not we discussed it for a compromise. Your fiance is probably just as overwhelmed and confused with all the options as you.

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