(Closed) FI’s bachelor party- Anyone else uncomfortable?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Do you feel uncomfortable about your fiance's bachelor party?
    Yes : (20 votes)
    21 %
    No : (74 votes)
    79 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    5670 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: August 2010

    I have no clue what he is doing for his bachelor party and I know I have to trust him and he will be with my brothers and cousin so I know nothing will happen. The worst thing is he gets a lap dirty from some ugly dirty girl that he can’t touch, so I just try to block it out of my mind. And since it’s not his usual behavior I am trying not to get hung up on it.

    Post # 4
    Hostess
    4663 posts
    Honey bee

    I love Mr.TKE with all my heart and I trust him also. That being said I answered yes because I have a tinge of a jealous side. Although I know he’ll never leave me, I also know that he is male.

    Post # 5
    Member
    136 posts
    Blushing bee
    • Wedding: August 2011

    Lol, I think he’s more worried about my bachelorette party than I am about his bachelor party!  My girls can get kinda crazy! 🙂

    Post # 6
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    13099 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2010

    Personally – I’m not bothered by it at all!  I trust my Fiance whole-heartedly so in my mind, I really have nothing to be concerned about.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1046 posts
    Bumble bee

    nah I’m not too concerned. We were talking about it the other day and he busted out with “I’m not going to a strip club and you can’t make me!”…. lol it’ll just end up a boring night at some club. Not too worried, he hasn’t had eyes for any other girl since we met =)

    Post # 8
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    446 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: May 2015

    I also trust my man but it drives me crazy that he says he doesn’t know what they are going to do b/c his friends are surprising him.  I told him I don’t care what they go look at but I will be very mad if some skank physically touches him (aka lap dance!)

    Post # 9
    Member
    3219 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    HisButtercup We are in the same boat! Fiance is lame and never wants to go out. I one the other hand and my girls get WILD when we go out!

    Post # 10
    Member
    612 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2010

    My best guy friend will be with him, so I know nothing will go on. I made rules though: No kissing, No touching private parts (boobs or otherwise), and no going to jail. Other than that, the boys can have a good time. They will probably go to a strip club, but I don’t really care. I’ve been to enough of them around here to know the girls there are all about the money and not as fabulous a catch as me. 😉

    Post # 11
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    2410 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: July 2011

    Nope, he gets vaguely embarassed by strip clubs and has specifically asked his best man to make sure that doesn’t happen. But even if that wasn’t the case, I really wouldn’t care. I trust him, he never gives me a reason to be even slightly concerned about that sort of thing so it is all good.

    Post # 12
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    1566 posts
    Bumble bee

    I’m not worried because Fiance and his friends have talked a lot about what they’re planning, and they actually decided to skip strippers. Knowing what their plans are is definitely a big factor in me not getting worried at all. I guess some guys are more secretive about party plans? I didn’t really have to ask him about it, his friends and him just bring it up occasionally.

    Post # 13
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    837 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: October 2010

    I don’t know what my fiance is doing for his bach party (probably poker night if I had to guess), but he thinks strippers are gross so even if they had one I wouldn’t care lol.  Besides I know he’s coming home to me  at the end of the night and that’s all that really matters.

    Post # 14
    Member
    5787 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    I don’t mind at all and I KNOW there will be strippers. He can touch all the boobies he wants (as long as he washes his hands later), I trust him.

    Post # 15
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    520 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: November 2010

    I’m not uncomfortable, but also know he won’t have strippers — we’re too old for that (we’re 30), and I feel like we both have outgrown that phase.

    Post # 16
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    814 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: June 2010

    mine’s was last weekend, he went out of state for 3 days, and aside from missing him, all went well. he did a really good job of texting and calling so that i knew he wasn’t locked on a roof, or married to some stripper. so really he made me comfortable with the whole idea 🙂 hope you can settle your anxiety!!

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