(Closed) FI’s brother on opposite end of spectrum…

posted 10 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
1932 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

I would have your Fiance talk to his brother about what he wants to be involved with in the wedding.  It’s the only way to prevent hurt feelings I think.  If you don’t involve him, he could be upset but if you ask he, he could this it’s insensitive.  Therefore, just ask.

Post # 4
3253 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2011

Let your FH handle this one. Even if you’re close with his brother, he likely knows him on a much deeper level and will decide what’s best. Maybe being involved in your wedding will take his mind of things; just because he is separating from his wife doesn’t mean he can’t be ecstatic that his brother has found a wife. 🙂

Post # 5
427 posts
Helper bee

I agree with the PPs. My best friends got married a while back while her sister was going through a divorce. Well, her sister was supposed to be a Bridesmaid or Best Man but she backed out a few weeks before the wedding because she couldn’t handle the emotional stress and pain she was enduring. I bet if he wants to help out and be involved, he genuinely wants to. If he didn’t, I am sure he would either back out or you could obviously tell he wasn’t into it…

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