(Closed) FI’s cousin getting married in my dream location!

posted 9 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: May 2010

Have you thought about moving the date…maybe this yr or the following yr?!  I know its a bit extreme but 5 weddings is alot!!  Or just do something CRAZY and DIFFERENT to set it apart fro the rest!!

Post # 4
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Bumble bee

I was going to say the same thing about waiting…  You’ll be going to these other weddings, right?  It will get you a chance to really plan and set your s apart.  5 weddings is a lot – not to mention a huge strain on mutual guests!

Post # 6
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2009

Aww, I’m sorry, hun! These things happen, and you have every right to feel jealous, so long as you don’t act jealous, right? 🙂 Jealousy is natural, and eventually, you’ll get over it.

As a bride who had been planning her wedding for months when another family member decided to get engaged AT our engagement party and plan their wedding THREE WEEKS before ours, I can honestly attest to how you feel. But this is what got me through: No matter what, every wedding is different. Different colors, dresses, flowers, programs, music, details, etc. Even if you have two weddings at one location, what each bride does with it will be completely different. Just think of ways to personalize your wedding and make it truly reflect you and your future husband, and don’t worry about anythig else 🙂

Post # 7
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Busy bee

yeah! and i have the same feeling about having babies too, like i wanna race! maybe its us competitive brides?

Post # 8
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: August 2010

Awe that is tough! But just concentrate on your own and really make it yours and then when you go to hers you will be like “mines better”

Post # 9
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Two of my best friends are getting married next year… one of them has been dating her boy for 3 months and the other is old enough to be my mom (it’s her second marriage) but I’m still feeling put off by it. It’s silly because they are both SO happy, and none of us are actually engaged yet but still… jealousy rears its ugly head because their boyfriends are not as… cautious… as mine!

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 1969

5 weddings, wow! It’s good that your wedding is in September and everybody will have a chance to recover and have a breather. And your location will be gorgeous, I’m sure.

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