(Closed) FIs ex just won’t take a hint

posted 7 years ago in Relationships
Post # 3
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

We don’t, but he needs to tell her straight out to **** off. She obviously cannot take the hint and you Fiance needs to get rid of her and it’s only fair to her that he tells her straight out. She’s obviously still not over him and maybe he didn’t tell her clearly that she needs to move on. He should also block her. That would be friggen annoying!

Post # 4
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Buzzing Beekeeper

I had one ex come inquiring after I got married. I think they like the thrill of the forbidden. I’m not about games though. I remained friends with 2 exes who have now become like family, my husband knows them and it’s fine. Any other ex I had to shut down immediately after my wedding. So annoying.

Post # 5
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1810 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2011

Yea, block her.

Post # 6
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5993 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: May 2010

i thought on FB you could block someone so they cant friend request you… i could be wrong

and im not judging you – i have a no female friend rule let alone a no sex buddy rule and hubby has no issue with it. personally i think shes trying to friend to simply check out who hes marrying/minor stalking without it being scary stalking – a lot of ex’s do it

 

Post # 9
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2373 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2008

I don’t think not talking to people you have had sex with is odd- I don’t talk to men I’ve had sex with and my husband does the same. When we were dating his ex girlfriend did the same thing.. eventually she got the hint.

Post # 10
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952 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

@mg1363: Yeah you would think so. After that many times, I wouldn’t be thinking to much about her feelings. Ok…I am just a mean person, but really…..

Post # 11
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2116 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2011

Maybe its best if you give him one “bye” to send her a nice message saying that the two of you have an agreement not to speak to exes and he’d really appreciate it if she stopped friend requesting him?

Post # 12
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241 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: January 2011

Honestly, why does it matter if she keeps trying to friend him? You trust him, and he ignores the requests. I guess I’m confused about the mutual friends bit though–is she excluded from get-togethers with mutual friends, or do you mean former mutual friends? I just am curious how this no-contact rule works if there are friends in common involved.

Post # 14
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2295 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@kingytobe: I have a feeling that might encourage her to contact him more (aka thats unreasonable! cant we just be friends, etc!)- also, people like this usually want to have attention/be rewarded with any kind of response, so I would just block her and call it a day really. It seems like she would keep doing it until she gets that response, almost.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2013

@mg1363: Honestly, just block her- Not telling her (and honestly people dont look to see if they are blocked, and if she does then she doenst really know what exactly happened…he could change his privacy settings for all she knows). I see blocking as a non response really, especially since she doesnt have access to his page anyways since shes not a friend.

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