(Closed) FI's now single ex has a photo of them as their Facebook profile picture…

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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334 posts
Helper bee

This would annoy me too. His ex sounds like an immature sh*t stirrer. I hope you can get your Fiance to have stern words with the ex.

Post # 4
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It would annoy me, but I don’t think you can really do anything about it. Other than maybe make your profile pic you and your Fiance and as your Fiance to do the same.

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

Your Fiance can report the photo on Facebook (which gives the option of asking the person to remove it or having FB remove the photo).

Post # 7
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Busy bee

Yes, this would annoy me. But I wouldn’t be able to deal with a bisexual SO, either. I’d worry he’d always miss that part of his life and resent me for it. Also, every bisexual man I’ve ever known has eventually come out as homosexual. So a bit of a foreign situation to me.

Are they in touch still?

 

 

Post # 8
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 2012

Totally inappropriate.  He really shouldn’t just let it be.  It would actually piss me off more if Fiance refused to report it or do anything about it.

Post # 10
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

 

@RedAngelDreamer:  This was exactly what I was thinking. I always figured that if a man wanted *that*, he would always have a need that I couldn’t fulfill. I understand that this isn’t your current dilemma, however I just want to advise you to tread carefully with this “bisexuality” from your Fiance. I applaud him for being upfront of course, but it is a situation that doesn’t usually end favorably for the heterosexual team.

As far as the FB pic goes, it really isn’t your problem. It’s the poster’s problem for going after a taken man, and it makes him look pathetic, In My Humble Opinion.

Post # 12
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I can understand that you are irritated about it but it will probably be easiest to just let it go without any drama… oh and @Sekhmet I agree with you!

Post # 13
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Busy bee

@Baal:  Bravo.  That’s a remarkable amount of ignorance you are all displaying there.  


Ignore them. I can’t believe I still read this ignorant crap from people on this forum. I don’t believe the OP asked for your wisdom on bisexual men. Oh and by the way, I’ve slept with a female! Go ahead and make any sweeping generalisations at me too. I need a laugh. 

 

To the OP – Facebook is just a drama filled sess pool. I’d suggest deleting it, both of you. Otherwise the drama, even from a picture will drive you mental. We both deleted ours, after issues with his ex. 

Post # 14
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Bumble bee

As someone who is bisexual and with a man who is also bisexual….

The picture would bother me too. Because he isn’t with that person anymore, and I would be upset if SO did not ask the picture to be removed. I’d really drop it after I asked though. It’s annoying, but not a big deal.

As to the rest of the posters, being bisexual has no bareing on cheating or resenting your opposite sex partner. That would be like saying all heterosexual men will cheat/resent because they like all women. I and SO have just as much respect for our relationship as any other couple. Neither of us have such raging hormones that we have to keep our partner on a leash to keep them away from those damn gay hormones or to force the other one to not jump the next hot piece of ass they see.

Being bisexual, gay or straight is not a choice. A monogomus relationship is about respecting your partner. None of those sexualities preordaine any person towards cheating. 

Respect knows no sexuality.

Post # 15
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

I would be completely p***** off !!!! There would be war!!!!!!!

Post # 16
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

It would annoy me, yeah. But I would do my best to ignore it because there’s nothing you can do to make the guy change his picture.

Is your Fiance still friends with this person? He sounds immature and toxic and I think it’s probably time for you both to phase him out of your lives, or you’ve got an indeterminate number of years of him pulling attention seeking stunts whenever he’s single and lonely to look forward to. 

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