(Closed) FI's parents want us to go to Premarital Counseling

posted 4 years ago in Christian
Post # 2
7977 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: July 2013 - UK

I would…

– Let your Darling Husband explain the whole “I have no intention of joining my FI’s church” thing to them. After all, they are his parents, not yours.

– Consider attending a secular pre-marital counselling course to get them off your back. It can’t hurt, right? And that way it looks like a compromise.

Post # 3
1651 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

Could it be that your in laws don’t like your FI’s frequency of church attendance and are using this as an opportunity to get him to church?


Either way, you shouldn’t get involved. Your Fiance needs to stand up to them and tell them what the TWO of you want together. 

Post # 4
841 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: August 2015

bassbee:  What’s it to them whether you read the bible every night? It’s none of their business and I just wouldn’t do it. Have your Fiance explain both of your feelings about counselling and don’t do it if you don’t feel comfortable.

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