(Closed) Flakey friends… I'm so sick of it (LONG VENT)

posted 6 years ago in Emotional
  • poll: What should I do???
    Cut them out! : (0 votes)
    Just let it be, things might work out(they might be going through stuff) : (4 votes)
    57 %
    Speak up! : (3 votes)
    43 %
    Other? : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
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    Bumble bee

    @MissMfutureMrsB:  my friendships are great but only because i learned early on to deal with issues immediately and in a non-aggressive way. dont whine to strangers say it to your friends!

    I do caution that you should do it one on one so that you can’t be tag teamed and they dont feel tag teamed

    Post # 6
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    1583 posts
    Bumble bee

    @MissMfutureMrsB:  why? if they are your friends why be subtle? dont be rude but be honest. Sometimes it takes a little while after a coming to jesus moment for the friendship to return to normal but if you both really care it will.

    Give them the respect and the option to accept your feelings. if nothing else maybe in the future theyll try harder

    Post # 8
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    1583 posts
    Bumble bee

    @MissMfutureMrsB:  oh dont talk down on yourself! those are skills even i, with my super strong personality, had to learn. It was after realizing that i let things get really bad sometimes and then had to do clean up that i finally decided to address issues before they ballooned into huge problems. You’ll get it. maybe it will take a while but I am sure it will be a process worth mastering =0)

    good luck getting your relationships in order!

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