(Closed) Flaky bridesmaid & a put out bride to be

posted 6 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
Hostess
7561 posts
Bumble Beekeeper
  • Wedding: January 2013

This is annoying, but try to keep your cool. It sounds like something’s going on with her so I would try to check-up on her without mentioning anything about the wedding. She can try on a dress by herself, right? 

Post # 4
Member
1963 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

@AlwaysSunny:  yeah I was thinking the same thing. Is there a way that you could just drop the dress off to her and then she can try it when she has time?

Post # 5
Member
3305 posts
Sugar bee

Calm down- see about dropping off the dress to her and letting her try it when she has time. I also think you should not ask her to do anything else for the wedding because this is an example now of what you are going to get as your wedding day gets closer.

Post # 6
Member
104 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I agree with @armychica06: drop off the dress, let her know you want her to try it on as soon as possible but don’t ask her for assistance with anything else. No need to stress yourself. 

Post # 7
Member
2781 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I’m curious why you aren’t keeping your side of the plans either, by the sounds of it you were supposed to meet her at her place for 7pm the first time and she fell asleep waiting on you to show up. The second day maybe something came up last minute, maybe her phone died and she was just expecting you to show up. 

Post # 8
Member
1375 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2012

I agree with PPs, drop the dress up so she can try it on when she has time.  Give her the very last date you can exchange it.  If she fails to try it on and it is not the right size, that is on her, not on you. 

Post # 9
Member
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I too am having trouble being able to speak with a Bridesmaid or Best Man about her dress.  I’ve been calling and texting.  What pissed me off is I saw her on FB this morning and messaged her and she didn’t respond.  Then I called her because I know she was up since she was on FB and she didn’t answer.  Then her phone called me by accident today and I could hear her in the background ordering food and I kept yelling hello.  She just hung up the phone.   I am going to call her and leave a VM about the dress then I’m going to text her one last time about it as well  and then after that if I don’t hear from her I’ll just assume she no longer wants to be in the wedding.

Leave her a VM or text her about the the deadlines and such with the dress and if she doesn’t acknowledge your messages, I would just leave it alone.

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