Post # 1
I don’t know whether or not to wear heels on the big day. FH and I are similar in height, he’s only an inch or two taller than me. I would love to have us either both the same height or him slightly taller than I on our wedding day (for aesthetics/photography purposes).
I have a choice between wearing flats or kitten heels. I have a fetish for freakishly high heels, but must give them up for the good of our wedding-day photos ):
Should I find sexy flats (is there such a thing?) or stick to kitten heels (not my favorite at all)?
Post # 3
If you dislike kitten heels just go with the flats, I don’t know about sexy flats but there are definitly some cute ones out there.
Or just wear the high heels you want to wear- who cares if that makes you taller than your fi.
Post # 4
I say, if you don’t like kitten heels, just wear flats 🙂 There are lots of cute flat shoes out there, tons of bees have posted pics of some really nice ones!
I know my FI’s rental shoes actually have a bit of a “heel” or lift to them. Why? I have no idea, but I remember thinking good thing I’m wearing 4″ heels! (He’s already 7″ taller than me without shoes). Maybe that’s something to consider? You may actually be able to get away with a higher heel depending on his shoes.
Post # 5
The thing I love about any heels no matter if its 2inch, 1inch.. or 1/2inch.. they make you look better.. THe way you walk, your posture it all changes with heels.. When i wear flat i dont feel sexy or attactive.. its that little inch that makes all the difference how i feel.. I would say get some kind of heel on your wedding day.. no one will see them under your dress but you will feel like a princess.. my opinion..
Post # 6
I find flats sooo much more comfortable than heels, so that’s my choice. Plus you’re going to be standing all day, you need to give your feet a break!
Post # 7
FH and I are the same height. Actually I’m probably a little taller than him but it’s hard to tell because he slouches a lot. I’m wearing 2.5″ heels for the wedding and we found that when FH is wearing nice dress shoes that he actually gains about 1.5″ so the height difference really isn’t that noticable.
I say go with a small heel. They don’t have to be kittens, they can be 2″ or so. What does your FH say about it? Don’t forget that if it’s photos that you’re worried about there’s loads of tricks that your photographer can use to make your FH look taller than you.