(Closed) Flower girl backed out

posted 11 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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1139 posts
Bumble bee

I would just skip having one rather than try to find a replacement.  We didn’t have a flower girl in our wedding… it’s no big deal.  You may even just want to still list her as your flower girl in your program and note that she’s not in attendance.

Post # 4
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1076 posts
Bumble bee

Do whatever you want.  If you want a lil flower girl there?  I don’t think its like a bridesmaid and you have 5 months.  You will be fine.  My only advice is, make sure you only ask someone who’s parents you planned on inviting to the wedding and who you know will come.

Post # 5
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

I wouldn’t worry about it. We aren’t having a ring bearer because we don’t know any little boys around my nieces’ age. In all honesty I can’t even remember who had flower girls/ring bearers in their ceremony and who didn’t (except the one where there were 16 flower girls and no ring bearers. It was weird).

Post # 7
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1028 posts
Bumble bee

I’d just skip the flowergirl. 

Sorry you’re dealing with this!

Post # 8
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389 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

I’d skip it unless there is actually someone you want to be the flower girl.

Post # 9
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

i would just ask someone else to be flower girl 🙂 

Post # 10
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

5 months is enough time that I don’t think the person would think they’re second string.  If there’s someone you want to ask, then ask.  But I wouldn’t just ask someone random bc they’re the right age, and you’ve gotten used to the idea of having a flower girl.

Post # 11
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269 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: November 2010

Unless there is another little girl you would love to ask, I would skip it!

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