(Closed) Flower girls and ring & banner bearers, and the sort…need advice

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
2184 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: August 2013

@KingsDaughter:  well I dont have THAT many kids to deal with but I feel your pain…. what I think you should tell everyone who has “an opinion” is Im really sorry but there are sooooooooo many kids to consider here its just not fair to push this on me. Tell your aunt that you want to try to make things fair between the families so if you have her kids too a) theres going to be way too many children and its just too caotic, we cant have everyone in the wedding or else we’ll have more ppl at the alter then sitting in seats!!!

with that many kids at the front, they are going to start playing, fighting or running around etc etc….

I right now have my FI’s 10 yr old cousin/goddaughter to deal with… her younger brother will be our ring bearer, but shes way too big to be a F.G (shes taller then my Maid/Matron of Honor, and has gottin her period already, and has mini boobs) lol…so ya…. I dont know her well enough to have her in my bridal party (plus id piss of MY family if I had her as a jr. Bridesmaid or Best Man because I have cousins of my own), so we’re having her do a simple reading, and be one of our candle lighters when we do the unity candle.

depending what your wedding type is (in church, non-church) if your not having a church ceremony with readings or a candle ceremony, are you going to have a sand ceremony (pour in the 2 colours and keep it in a vase) or anything where they can participate in SOMETHING during the ceremony!

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