(Closed) flower girls but no ring bearer?

posted 8 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
2767 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2009

We were the same as you.  Had his niece as a flowergirl and decided not to have either of his nephews be a ringbearer because they were a little older (9 and 12) and also I didn’t feel as close to them (we babysat his nieces all the time, but never the nephews).  I also didn’t want a ton of kids in the wedding, so I kept things simpler.  No one noticed.  At least no one said anything to me about it so I don’t think it is a big deal.

Post # 4
14495 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I don’t think it’s weird, we are having a Ring Bearer and no Flower Girl.  The only reason we are even having a Ring Bearer is he is the only nephew and my brother just assumed he would be it and bought him alittle suit and has had him practicing.  He looks so cute in his little suit and has been practicing, how could I break his little heart.  So, now we have a Ring Bearer.

Post # 5
1046 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: December 2010

We’re having a flower girl (maybe she’s more of a junior bridesmaid–she’s 10) but no ring bearer since we’re not close to any little boys. I don’t think it matters.

Post # 6
7779 posts
Bumble Beekeeper

My 4 year old cousin is our Flower Girl and we have no Ring Bearer. I dont think it’s a big deal at all.

Post # 7
255 posts
Helper bee

I’m with the others, we are having a Jnr Bridesmaid (11) and a flowergirl (2.5) because they are my two closest friends’ daughters and I’ve had a lot to do with them. Same issues with ring bearers so decided not to have any – think that is the best decision in your case (rather than playing favourites – that is guaranteed to get someones’ feelings hurt)

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